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  • #61
    Originally posted by Impulse View Post
    The "unless you cant wait that long" is what caused the issue - IMO she interpreted that differently from how you expected - its a schoolboy error but not a huge one..
    Ok. Why did it cause the issue? Too forward? Triggering her ASD? Too passive i.e. almost looking to her for permission?


    Originally posted by Impulse View Post
    Also look at ijjis text game, he's a pro at this stuff
    I will, thank you.

    EDIT: I can't find it... do you have a link?

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    • #62
      Kind of interested to see what happened before this.

      Her sending pics at the gym is usually pretty good interest, but I am not sure what led to this convo. My initial thoughts are that it looks like you are pushing for something, whether that is good logistics or a date on Friday, as seen in the last message. I feel that slowing that down and having her push more for the meet is better and Friday is a prime night, one for meeting new women, or two for being with someone important to you, generally not someone you haven't even hooked up with.

      Don't get me wrong though, if we hadn't hooked up and she was dying to see me on Friday night then I'm in.
      -Supernova

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      • #63
        Originally posted by Supernova View Post
        Kind of interested to see what happened before this.
        What do you mean? The text? Do you want the full thing?

        Originally posted by Supernova View Post

        Her sending pics at the gym is usually pretty good interest, but I am not sure what led to this convo.
        Nothing led to it. She just texted me out of nowhere.
        Although... I had a date with her on monday (details in this very thread if you care to look). We made out (that was day #2) I'm now trying to get her for a lay. We've pretty much verbalized it, she's expressed she wouldn't be opposed to it but wants her house guests gone before doing it (which makes sense).


        Originally posted by Supernova View Post
        My initial thoughts are that it looks like you are pushing for something, whether that is good logistics or a date on Friday, as seen in the last message. I feel that slowing that down and having her push more for the meet is better and Friday is a prime night, one for meeting new women, or two for being with someone important to you, generally not someone you haven't even hooked up with.
        So... don't go for it? I'm confused now... :/

        Originally posted by Supernova View Post

        Don't get me wrong though, if we hadn't hooked up and she was dying to see me on Friday night then I'm in.
        Ok I'll post the rest of the text. It seems like she's interested but you tell me. On our date after the makeout (monday night) she asked me when I was free so I assumed I should make a push for it. Plus you're confusing me now because I thought I was supposed to take the lead and go for what I want... :/

        https://s19.postimg.org/5mqa02sjn/Sc...8_19_09_21.png

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        • #64
          Haha yeah go for it. Just a common thing is that others try to push for the lay too much, this is only a problem when she is not ready, but you look all good to go here.
          -Supernova

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          • #65
            Originally posted by Supernova View Post
            Haha yeah go for it. Just a common thing is that others try to push for the lay too much, this is only a problem when she is not ready, but you look all good to go here.

            Cool man, I'm excited.

            any advice for a virgin on what to do? So far I've been mostly "matching and mirroring" her, even in the kiss.

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            • #66
              Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
              Cool man, I'm excited.

              any advice for a virgin on what to do? So far I've been mostly "matching and mirroring" her, even in the kiss.
              just my 2 cents..there's always an option to tell her you're a virgin. She may see it as endearing, some women love to teach guys how to be passionate haha I've pulled that card even when I wasn't. That way some women will give 100 in the sack in hopes to keep ya.

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              • #67
                Originally posted by Tagz View Post
                just my 2 cents..there's always an option to tell her you're a virgin. She may see it as endearing, some women love to teach guys how to be passionate haha I've pulled that card even when I wasn't. That way some women will give 100 in the sack in hopes to keep ya.
                Hmm, I dunno. If she asks I'll tell her I guess. I just want it to be casual, fun, and hot. I don't want it to be too serious but I also don't want to f*ck it up lol.

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                • #68
                  Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
                  Hmm, I dunno. If she asks I'll tell her I guess. I just want it to be casual, fun, and hot. I don't want it to be too serious but I also don't want to f*ck it up lol.
                  Understandable Sarge and hey you got this you doing alright so far just keep it up (no pun intended aha)

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                  • #69
                    Originally posted by Tagz View Post
                    Understandable Sarge and hey you got this you doing alright so far just keep it up (no pun intended aha)
                    Lol, thanks man!

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                    • #70
                      i encourage you to stop a bit talking about this girl, and keep gaming and pursuing other women, till she either fucks you or send you to hell...
                      Sexting, my unique natural game, aggressive dance floor seductions, 15-20 minutes hook ups in clubs. Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a club type environment, check out my blog and youtube clubbing channel:

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                      • #71
                        Originally posted by Skills360 View Post
                        i encourage you to stop a bit talking about this girl, and keep gaming and pursuing other women, till she either fucks you or send you to hell...
                        I'm trying man but I got another issue...

                        I texted her today about logistics. They're good. So I'm like "how bout I come over at 830?" and she says: "What would you like ta do"

                        and I replied: "hang out and relax" cause I wasn't expecting it and had no idea what to say!

                        Jesus this shit is complicated.

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                        • #72
                          Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
                          I'm trying man but I got another issue...

                          I texted her today about logistics. They're good. So I'm like "how bout I come over at 830?" and she says: "What would you like ta do"

                          and I replied: "hang out and relax" cause I wasn't expecting it and had no idea what to say!

                          Jesus this shit is complicated.

                          Ok, so she basically said yes to sex, in this case you needed a bit of pausible deniability, you could have said: "i am gonna bring a movie and give you a massage/cuddle" or " i have this amazing wine we can drink and get to know each other" etc... "hang out and relax" is meh could trigger asd if she is not too invested... But anyways, she is down, and she has been down and interested, so this is not complicated at all...
                          Sexting, my unique natural game, aggressive dance floor seductions, 15-20 minutes hook ups in clubs. Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a club type environment, check out my blog and youtube clubbing channel:

                          www.dancefloorseduction.com









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                          • #73
                            Originally posted by Skills360 View Post
                            Ok, so she basically said yes to sex, in this case you needed a bit of pausible deniability, you could have said: "i am gonna bring a movie and give you a massage/cuddle" or " i have this amazing wine we can drink and get to know each other" etc... "hang out and relax" is meh could trigger asd if she is not too invested... But anyways, she is down, and she has been down and interested, so this is not complicated at all...

                            Thanks man. The texting seems complicated to me.

                            But good/bad news: my text message didn't send so I just sent the one you suggested. Fingers crossed!

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                            • #74
                              Still no reply to my texts... ASD?

                              Should I phone her later just in case she hasn't been getting my texts?

                              EDIT: Thanks for the downvotes. Care to explain?

                              I assume it has something to do with calling her to see if she got my texts. Well, you should know that my phone randomly doesn't send texts, sometimes it also doesn't receive texts so, I'd hate to lose out on a lay simply because of technical issues.

                              Also, why would she go this far if she was just going to go silent on me? Give me some CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM!! Where did I go wrong,m what happened, etc.

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                              • #75
                                Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                                Dude, your first text was fine ie "chill and hangout" - no need to over complicate it with a big skills line...
                                Well I did so... did I f*ck it up?


                                [QUOTE=Impulse;180258]
                                what exactly did you text her?

                                This:

                                https://s19.postimg.org/ajlxllhxf/Sc...0_16_17_41.png

                                my phone said it didn't send the second last message

                                Originally posted by Impulse View Post

                                She will have got your text but what did you text exactly? If its not congruent with the way youve been texting she might notice something being off (which will put pressure on it)
                                Well it WILL be different because I came on here for advice...



                                Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                                Also see this for how ijji does it:

                                http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...-up-with-Girls

                                How long have you been in this community btw? Text her the way you text your friends when you meet up

                                I suggest getting a social circle to understand how texting works as that will help you improve faster
                                >< This is so unhelpful, I'm sorry, but normally I'm very direct. So, in this situation I would have said "fuck you" or something like that.

                                BUT, because women don't respond well to that stuff, I'm trying to learn new ways.

                                Very confusing to me.

                                EDIT: Btw, ijjji says that you should never plan first meets, but this will be our third meet up...

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