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  • Synchrodestiny - Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fear

    My life. It has been interesting, tough, had lots of painful shit going on, lots of things I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy that have happened to me.

    This is not a sob story though. Because I have also had a lot of cool, kick ass experiences. I went on 4 dates last week, had sex with a new girl, went our with one girl twice, ran into another girl in a grocery store who I got a number from before who, but never went out with, but wants to. My business is doing well. I'm not even really marketing, but since I tend to teach these guys who come to me how to get successful with women, from point A to point F and beyond, I get great feedback. I just talked to Handler who I haven't seen in a while and he said he had an LTR all winter, for example. The guys who I work with are kicking ass.

    I live in Chicago, I have a pretty cool life outside of pickup that I really enjoy.

    Life is good!

    But the point is, I would have given up long ago, really just said fuck it, life sucks... If I didn't come across a few books that started teaching me that EVERYTHING that happens, is for a purpose.

    There is no such thing as coincidence! The good things, the bad things, the seemingly random things... The situations where you are tested and fail. The other times when you are challenged and you succeed. The friends you make. The people who hate you. The girls you make love to, and the ones that call you a creepy fuck. The times when you feel like you are on top of the world. The times when the pain is so bad life feels hopeless.

    None of it is coincidence. There is a purpose to all of it.

    The 2 things we will focus on in this topic:
    1. Synchrodestiny
    2. Intention

    Let's get into FIRST, a couple interesting specific scientific examples, and then I will help you apply it to your seduction game. If you can learn and apply this concept, approach anxiety does NOT EXIST. There will be a whole myriad of things that you can improve upon in this game by applying this concept I am about to tell you. But first, the mad Science!!

    You ever watch a group of sparrows fly?

    If you know what I'm talking about you know that a large group of sparrows can fly amazingly fast in a big swarm and seem completely in sync. The whole group of them turns, goes up, down and around super fast, and they don't crash into each other. Quite the opposite, they move as one.

    *"How is this happening? There's not enough time for any exchange of information, so any correlation of activity among the birds must be happening nonlocally.

    Physicists have been working for years to discover the properties that guide the movements of birds, and so far they have been unsuccessful. The complexity and absolute precision of the birds' behavior stumps physical science every time. Engineers have been studying the movement of birds to see if there is a way to discover principles that might translate into solutions for traffic jams." So far, with all the technology we have at our disposal, they have found it impossible to do.

    There was a study done by scientist Rupert Sheldrake where they discovered that dogs knew when their human masters were on their way home. They installed cameras to watch the dogs. The dogs seemed to know when their masters were on their way home. They would move by the door and wait, etc. Even if they took the person to a completely random place at a random time the dogs seemed to know when their master was on the way back.

    As most of us learned in science class the universe is made up of both solid particles and waves. In other words, the chair you are sitting on, or the phone you are holding or the computer you are reading this on, is made up of little atoms that are actually NOT solid. They are forms of energy. But why are they solid to us? How can I sit in a chair that is made up of small particles of energy that are not solid?

    But even more interesting is the waves? When they study the particles in a wave packet (measurement of a wave) there were two questions asked that had interesting results.

    Where is it? What is it's momentum?

    Scientists discovered you can ask ONE both NOT BOTH of these questions.

    Where is it fixes the wave particle to one spot. It becomes a PARTICLE.

    What is it's momentum? Movement becomes the critical factor so it is no longer a particle, it is a WAVE.

    It depends on the question you ask as to whether it is a particle or a wave. It is the intention you have that determines what it is. This goes deeper, even to the point where Alber Einstein studied this, but you look that shit up on your own. I don't want to bore mort of the readers with scientific jargon. But understanding this stuff may shed some light on what I'm talking about.–particle_duality

    But lets get even deeper with one last example. A scientist had swabbed his mouth and put the swab under a microscope. He was watching the cells, that were no longer a part of his body. He was going to make a small incision in his finger with a scalpel and study the cells. He discovered that, even by going to get the scalpel, without even cutting himself, that the cells under the microscope were already acting erratically where they were not before. In other words, these cells, no longer attached to his body, were still worried that the body was going to be cut. Just the INTENTION effected them.

    That same guy studied the cells of a guy who was looking at a naked pic of Bo Derek in playboy. Even though the guys reading it said, "I don't think she's a 10," his cells were bouncing all over. When the magazine was closed they stopped.

    If you read and study up on a lot of this stuff, you will start to see my point and that is, that MANY things that happen in everyday life, are not just surface level, but they are happening on a VERY DEEP ASS level. So deep that we cannot even comprehend what the hell is going on behind the scenes.

    Some have even suggested crazy shit like a butterfly beating it's wings in Texas that causes a typhoon a week or so later in japan.

    1 more!

    "There is a fascinating phenomenon in science known as the “multiples effect”. The multiples effect if when multiple people geographically isolated from one another come up with the exact same discovery at the exact same time. By 1922, there had been 148 major scientific breakthroughs identified to have been discovered in such a way. Here are just a FEW examples:

    - Evolution (Darwin and Wallace)
    - Calculus (Newton and Leibniz)
    - Decimal fractions – 3 people
    - Sunspots – 4 people in 1611
    - Law of conservation of energy – 4 people in 1847
    - Steamboat – 4 people
    - Telescope – 9 people
    - Thermometer – 6 people

    Is it really possible that all 148 major discoveries happened at the exact same time coincidentally by people who were not sharing their ideas with each other?"


    There are studies that suggest we are all connected on a deeper level too. You can simply google "we are all connected" to delve into that.

    So check this out...

    What if you, reading this right now, is part of a greater plan? What if you learning Seduction is for more reasons you can even fathom? What if, your intention to become better with women in part of a grander scheme of things that go beyond you?

    Everything that happens has a greater purpose.

    Let's talk about that.

    Say you get up with the INTENTION of sargeing. Your intention is to go out, and meet women. You take a shower at a certain time, you get ready, put on clothes. You pick a destination and even a time you will go to that destination, even if it's loosely based you still have the intention of doing so, and are taking time out of your day to do so.

    What if... Just what if, life was taking place at a deeper level? So lets say you get there, to where-ever it is you decided to go. You see a girl you like. Your brain says to you, "Go talk to her..." What if, you knew on a deep level that all of that was meant to happen.

    Not that your brain was telling you to go talk to her because you should be afraid and have anxiety? But what if you were part of something on a WAY deeper level than you realized and you were SUPPOSED to go talk to that girl, and that she was supposed to interact with you?

    I'm saying, what if life was happening? Your intention to go meet a woman, and her intention to do whatever it was she had decided to do that day - what if those things were happening on some universal level to give you to the opportunity to interact with each other?

    Sure, you could choose not to talk to her. Particle or wave. But what it her being there was life's gift to you for your intention. It may be to meet her, have a cool time, make a good friend, and even possibly fuck her. Or it could be for you to LEARN something. It might even be for you to TEACH something. Maybe it's so you take 1 minute out of her day for her to tell you, "Fuck off creep!" but that 1 minute saved her from crossing an intersection somewhere and getting hit by a bus. Or maybe she feels bad 10 minutes later, wonders why she had that reaction and is inspired to do something good that she might not have done.

    There are millions of different possibilities.

    Maybe you would like a visual example: - Run Lola Run. This is a GREAT movie everyone should watch in their life But watch this scene with the guy on the bike and then the flash forward of what happens. Later in the movie she makes a different choice and something different happens. But I'm not one for spoilers and this is a GREAT movie so... Watch it yourself.

    But what if the intentions we have and the decisions we make have a profound effect on the things around us, and not only that, what if they are also part of a huge, deep, complicated ORDER out of the seemingly chaotic world we live in?

    What if, you not approaching that girl is like Slapping life in the Face?

    What if you not escalating, because you are afraid to fail is like not living the gift that life has given you?

    What if you go and get blown out 10 times in a row, but you learn something you don't even realize you learned, or maybe life was just testing you to see how you would handle it?

    Because I know there are days where I go out and blow out after blow out after blow out happen, and then the very next day I do ONE approach and end up sleeping with that girl.

    It happens. It just happened to me last week.

    I had been out for a couple days before that with nothing sticking, and boom, I meet a chick and we have sex a couple days later. This is pretty common for me.

    What if, even further, your intention to be good at seduction alone is enough? What I mean is, because just by writing that I realize that seeing the women I hook up with is NOT ALWAYS when I plan on meeting them. I might be doing something completely random. Maybe I'm in a grocery store to grab some food and I see a girl looking at lettuce. The 2 choices are, particle or wave... I could let her be there, because the mind says, in this order:

    1. She's cute. Go talk to her.
    2. No. I'm shopping right now. I need to get food.

    But what if you just assumed she was there, at that moment, so you could meet her? Then you wouldn't be afraid to approach her. In other words, you went to the store at X time to Y place and walked down Z isle, not because of random chance, but because THAT girl was going to be there at THAT specific time so that YOU could have an opportunity to interact with you and SHE could have an opportunity to interact with you.

    Are you following me?

    There is no coincidence. Not in my life. Every single thing that happens; good, bad, ugly; I feel there is a greater reason for. If we can begin to look at life around us as something we are supposed to take part it, not this old, scared APART mentality that the community has that, "Approaching is scary because when we were cavement you could get killed if you approached the wrong girl..." By the way, I completely disagree with that. I think it's as simple as, our egos. Our egos think we are amazing creatures, and by going and talking to a girl, and her rejecting us, then it "proves" that we aren't as awesome as we thought were, and that's a scary thing.

    But what if the difference between that Tribal Leader who was fucking all the cave man bitches, and the rest of the guys who were getting sloppy seconds OR who were not getting any, was simply that Tribal Leader guy was more apt to ACT upon the situations life gave him. Maybe instead of thinking that life was making things difficult, scary or whatever - he took it all as life giving him a gift or OPPORTUNITY, whether that be for material gain, to learn something new, to do one of a million possible things, but at least take it as a gift to ACT upon?

    So I'm saying. When you see these girls from now on, start telling yourself she is there for you to interact with on some level. Start trying to see the connections around you. By the way, I can tell you now, that once you get good at looking at life like this, you will start to get MAD perceptive abilities. You will start to see things before they happen. At first you won't realize it. Something will happen and you'll be like, "Oh. I knew that was gonna happen." Maybe that happens to you now a little from time to time.

    The KEY of this, by the way, is not to think MORE. It is to think LESS. Don't try and think, just be.

    Cute girl. Go talk. Done.

    Not, Cute girl, oh but maybe she's waiting for someone, besides I'm really thirsty and need some water, oh and she might reject me anyway, and besides we're at a bus stop, and I'm dressed like shit....

    Because if you assumed that ALL of that (those excuses) were actually part of a greater plan that, try as you might, you couldn't begin to understand then none of those things could hold you back.

    waiting for someone, I'm thirsty, might reject you, as a bus stop, dressed like shit now becomes - "Well, life knew that shit was gonna be all in place anyway so THINGS ARE, AS EXACTLY AS THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE IN THIS MOMENT, time to go talk to that beautiful girl.

    When you get all locked up with things like KINO, or ESCALATION or, WHAT TO SAY NEXT, or the 100 other sticking points that are caused by fear... Maybe you can tell yourself, this is supposed to be this way. I can go ahead and escalate because I'm supposed to at least try. That's why I'm here. If it works or it doesn't it was supposed to be that way. I embraced life.

    Can you dig it?

    Your intention + No such thing as coincidence + You seeing that cute girl = Life's gift to you.

    Make sense?

    (questions, comments, etc?)...


    PS - for more on this kind of thing (if I haven't linked you up enough already... Check out: - The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire: Harnessing the Infinite Power of Coincidence by Deepak Chopra

    You can buy the book too but, coincidentally, I just noticed it was on Youtube. By the way.... Those kinds of books don't tend to last long so you may want to save it somewhere if you plan on listening.

    Ok.... Discuss!!

  • #2
    I know of Sheldrake's study. Instead I didn't know about this
    Crazy stuff.

    Particles and momentum. That is known as Heisenberg's principle.

    Multiple effect sounds to me like the so called collective consciousness, that scientists are studying.

    My take is... we know little about our universe. We don't know how things work out in a lot of fields. And.. this is a mistake according to me... people are constantly coming up with their own explanations. It has to be human nature, wanting to always have a reason. But we are making explanations of dynamics we ignore.

    PS.. Chopra. Oh no, not him!


    • #3
      Oh yes. Him..

      I get he's cheesy, Oprah, blah blah blah, but in all fairness his shit is one factor in what propelled me, indirectly, to find the community, get good with women, etc..

      But let's get deeper than him. MANY spiritual books like the Tao allude to this kind of thinking a well.

      Everything happens for a reason, but instead of that usually being connected with events past, I'm saying it can be connected to events present and future. Hope that makes sense.


      • #4
        Originally posted by Ronnie L-Train View Post
        MANY spiritual books like the Tao allude to this kind of thinking a well.
        I like the Taoist philosophy: it praises minimalism and efficiency, two concepts I like a lot.

        Everything happens for a reason, but instead of that usually being connected with events past, I'm saying it can be connected to events present and future. Hope that makes sense.
        That may be true in a multiverse reality. Some assert that the multiverse is contrary to Ockham's razor, some state that many universes are a simpler explanation than a single one.

        We truly don't know, we lack a lot of knowledge. As I said above, we are coming up with explanations of dynamics we ignore.

        Informations and proofs given, and applying the Ockham's razor, I would say that there are patterns in human behaviors that tend to replicate themselves over and over.

        Many ancient philosophers said that history is cyclical: that is because mankind is the same as two thousand years ago and it tend, for example, to replicate the same errors.

        Psychologists also say that best predictor for future behaviors is past behaviors.

        For example, if you study financial bubbles, you are going to notice the SAME mistakes every time, from the Tulip mania to the USA housing market bubble (and for example the upcoming Brazilian housing market bubble). That is a well known fact. Think about it: the same actions and mistakes, over and over again.

        Not talking about how we may learn a mechanism when children and apply and repeat it throughout the entire course of our life. An Italian psychologist studied this sort of mechanism in drug addicted families and found how children of drug addicted parents learn the distorted thought processing and decision making patterns and unconsciously live by it.
        It is terrible, I know.

        In this forum I found this
        Don't know Illuminatus but he has to be a really clever guy. He talks about the same concept. And he talks about how to break the pattern, too; once discovered, you can intervene on it.

        Now, that was a negative example, but you can learn positive patterns or mechanics and unconsciously perform them.

        Given all that, it's easy to understand how we can get a feeling of destiny. But destiny doesn't exist, IMHO. We always can make a choice between different options. We can decide to change, for example.

        And quoting Lao-Tze:
        Watch your thoughts; they become words.
        Watch your words; they become actions.
        Watch your actions; they become habits.
        Watch your habits; they become character.
        Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

        Regarding PU, what you said above about ego and life acceptance is good. It may be inspiring for some guys. But they have to enjoy a process of change.
        Changing beliefs, about world, women, society and yourself. And learn new patterns and new behaviors. Learning how to drop the ego and the fear, meanwhile being accountable for some outcomes. It's a delicate equilibrium; that takes time, because change is a process, not an event.

        Speaking for myself, I'm not still done. Sometimes I go in a "ego-protection" mode, or I am afraid to approach (and don't do it), sometimes I delay escalation or closing, other times I just screw up. But it's ok, I know that my self esteem is not going to be affected if I screw up with ONE single girl.

        Or better still, I try to take my self esteem apart from PU.


        • #5
          Everything happens for a purpose?

          If it helps you become less judgemental and more accepting of the events in your life, sure, as a (self-)mindfuck.

          But really, objectively, scientifically, shit happens because the laws of physics are the way they are. There is no real meaningful purpose to speak of, certainly not from any individual's perspective. Anybody who says otherwise is indulging in wishful thinking and bullshit salesmanship.

          I think you are a clever enough guy, so I don't think you need this sort of new-age-ish crutches anymore. Fuck synchrodestiny. It is time to be a big boy and accept life along with all its meaninglessness, and yet not get all cynical about it.

          Every identity that you take on ultimately must be renounced, and this too will pass, is what I am saying, if you want me to put it in a language more adapted to your choice of words.