Practical Technique Kant's LMR Busting Technique

I had some reservations about posting this. My buddy ithidesacocoon suggested that I should when I asked him, and by coincidence I ended up having to use it, so it's 1am and I figured why the hell not.

I know the LMR busting techniques and I've used most of them at some point--rinse wash repeat, two steps forward one step back, role reversal, pre-empting the resistance, agree and reframe, cavemanning, Ciaran's shock and awe (not intended for this purpose but works great), and probably some others I'm forgetting.

Unfortunately most of these just aren't congruent to the image I present. I come across as laid back, free spirit, dominant, very experienced, wandering musician who probably bangs a lot of girls. On top of this I move very quickly, usually banging within an hour of meeting, so a lot of these methods just wouldn't work or make sense for the situation.

I rarely encounter it these days, but this is the technique I use to overcome LMR. So far it has worked 100% of the times I've used it. I would NOT recommend this to a newbie because if you are not very calibrated you will come off as an asshole at best or rapey at worst.

-As soon as she starts giving you resistance, move one step back
-To whatever verbal resistance she says, reply "okay"
-Once resistance has started, your focus must shift. You are now in LMR busting mode

Two intuitions
--Kissing is very personal, it's a way for her to show you she likes you, and is something she engages in logically as a choice. If she is kissing you she feels like she implicitly agreeing to whatever you're doing, so whatever happens while you're kissing is in her mind her fault.
--Similarly, spreading her legs is to her equivalent to a verbal agreement of "lets have sex". If she spreads her legs and penetration then occurs, it is again in her own mind her fault.

Naturally this means when you are in LMR busting mode you will minimize kissing and not in any way ask her to spread her legs for you.

--Instead of kissing, bite her neck lightly, lick her nipples
--If she wont let you get to her tits, use rinse wash repeat until she does. This is definitely token resistance and she'll let you if you persist for a bit
--try to put your hand up her skirt or in her pants (from the front) to finger her
--if she lets you great, finger her for a while, if not, use rinse wash repeat a few times. if that doesn't work that's okay, proceed to the next step

Now here is where it gets interesting:

--In a fit of passion, you will turn her around so her ass is facing you and you're basically either spooning or shes on her stomach
--This is easy because remember, you are not kissing her, so it's normal for her to be turned away from you.
--Slide your hand down her pants from the back. since this is just her ass, it is way less personal and she will let you
--Of course the thing here is that you can access her pussy from behind just as easily as from the front
--Push two fingers in her pussy and start fucking her with your fingers, passionately like youre having sex. she will likely start moaning uncontrollably
--after a minute of this, slide her pants down so you have better and less awkward access. if she resists at all say "i want to touch you", but most likely she won't resist at this point because youre already finger fucking her pussy

Now escalating to sex is easy

--with your free hand pull your cock out and touch yourself while you continue finger fucking her with your free hand
--after a minute of this, bring your cock up to her pussy, and you can stop finger fucking her
--she now feels empty. even if you're passive, she will instinctively back her ass up against you and start to fuck you. push your cock all the way in
--she will now fuck the shit out of you. it's sexy as hell to her that you were able to overcome her resistance and fuck her in a dominant way, without seeming needy or making her feel like a slut
--notice she wasn't doing anything, her legs weren't spread, she wasn't kissing you, and she likely didn't even interact with your dick until you were having sex

And that, gentlemen, is how sex 'just happened' and it 'wasn't her fault'.

Thanks
Kant

[DavidK]

Great stuff, Kant! Loving the vibe.

Question: in the last part (escalating to sex) in which part do you handle the annoying part that is getting and putting on the condom?

I often do similar stuff and more than once had the moment break once I go for the condom.

[kant]

Great stuff, Kant! Loving the vibe.

Question: in the last part (escalating to sex) in which part do you handle the annoying part that is getting and putting on the condom?

I often do similar stuff and more than once had the moment break once I go for the condom.

Thanks. I usually raw dog it in these situations because if you break momentum you're fucked. But there's two alternatives

1. If you have a lot of dexterity, the part where you're touching yourself with one hand, pull the condom out of your pocket, open the packet with your teeth and put it on all with your free hand while you continue finger fucking her

2. Transition from finger fucking her to licking her pussy. She will probably let you at that point, then you can put on the condom without her noticing while you eat out her pussy. once its on just turn her around again and continue where you left off before

[DJ_Z]

Thanks. I usually raw dog it in these situations because if you break momentum you're fucked. But there's two alternatives

1. If you have a lot of dexterity, the part where you're touching yourself with one hand, pull the condom out of your pocket, open the packet with your teeth and put it on all with your free hand while you continue finger fucking her

2. Transition from finger fucking her to licking her pussy. She will probably let you at that point, then you can put on the condom without her noticing while you eat out her pussy. once its on just turn her around again and continue where you left off before

I'm sorry man, but I have to voice any opposition to a situation where you don't use protection in order to maintain "momentum." This is my most hated aspect of using protection - interrupting a passionate and intimate moment to grab one. HOWEVER, I gotta be honest, if you are fingering her, eating her out and getting her off, then taking a brief moment to grab that trojan (or whatever) should not lead to her suddenly deciding not to bang. I mean, maybe this is just me but I think a girl has only stopped once, ever that i can remember where she went from foreplay to saying no to sex.

What I usually do though, is tell her to start playing with herself and begging for my dick while I go to grab the condom. I admit, I am not the best at dirty talk, so it is kept relatively simple. But guys, its 20 seconds tops if you're in a dark room and gotta go for a drawer.

WRAP IT UP.

[kant]

I'm sorry man, but I have to voice any opposition to a situation where you don't use protection in order to maintain "momentum."

No worries, I fully expected some parts of this post to be controversial, or to run into some opposition. But I chose to post it anyway, it's a tool and people can choose whether to use it or not

[ijjjji]

GOOD shit!

Understandings having vider implication than title of post suggests.

(I never get LMR since Im always the one who has the LMR.. which is similar to this method actually.)

[animal]

Awesome post!

[ithidesacocoon]

I'd like to see what other guys think of this technique.

I have certainly used a variation of what Mr. Kant is talking about here (just recently actually).