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  • Practical Technique Introduction to swing club game

    Swing club game

    Disclaimer: For the tldr, I will make it interesting.

    This is more for advance players that have been in seduction for at least couple of years and are getting consistent results. The second group I recommend this is for players that have a rotation or a couple (husband and wife that want to avoid boredom and spice it up/boyfriend and girlfriend/primary or main girl/ the key is that the girl is slightly more invested in the dude that he is in her.) I would not recommend this for newbies or guys that are still somewhat struggling to maintain relationships.

    In addition, I do not recommend this to any really macho/jealousy/territorial/insecure/violent/needy alphas (and I am not judging since I was there once).The reason you should not try this, Is because it may cause drama, problems, paranoia etc… With that being said these guys would benefit from it by getting over insecurities, seeing this as not big deal and understanding that it does not mean shit to have one of your girls being banged by some other girl or dude.

    If you guys are interested to find a way to convince a women to go to a swing club is to make it her idea, not a big deal, and do not push for it, just let it happen, I talk about ways to get women to do crazy shit in this post http://www.theskillsmethod.com/simpl...t-a-threesome/

    I do not care if you been to swing club a million times, when you go there with a girl you are introducing to the lifestyle have a poker face and attitude. Since she may be overwhelmed (but exited at the same time). One of the key is to act like is your first time there, remember as an attractive dude is your job to lead and make her feel comfortable.


    So what is a Modern swinging:

    “Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club (also known as a swinger club, not to be confused with a strip club). Different clubs offer varied facilities and atmospheres, and often hold "theme" nights.[6] Much like a "secret society", swingers have code talk and secret lingo to hide their discussions from the scrutiny of those not involved in that lifestyle.

    Swinging is also known to take place in semi-public venues such as hotels, resorts, or cruise ships, or often in private homes.[7] Furthermore, many websites that cater to swinging couples now exist, some boasting hundreds of thousands of members.[7]




    Type of Swing clubs clubs and parties:

    There are the poly communities you usually find about through the poly groups in your area.

    The parties range from white trash parties, middle class parties and the playboy mansion type parties were you usually the rich and famous were masks (there are some politicians and pastors under those masks, you may be surprised).

    The swing clubs range from trashy white trash clubs to middle/high class swing clubs.

    In both you will find a single fee, membership or a combination of both.

    When you choose the membership you pay the highest price if you are a single dude, single women are typically the cheapest entry/membership, the second cheapest is a hetero couple.

    Prices also vary depending on the night you go to the swing club or if they are having some special event, for example they have Latin nights, couple nights, single nights etc…

    The more popular nights of course will be more expensive.

    In some clubs in addition to the membership you have to pay an entrance fee depending on the night.

    Typical swing club logistics:

    So now you go to the swing clubs I recommend your girl to dress kind of slutty sexy if you go with a girl. If you are going alone (and I do not recommend this, I will explain why later on) just make sure you are clean and dress cool.

    There is usually valet parking or you can park your own car. So now we are going in there will be a cashier that will request your membership card (if you are a couple they will not bother much checking if the girl you are with is your main or not, which is kind of cool, for the scumbags out there, in other words you can use your membership with different women pretending they are your main J). But, if you are a scumbag player you will not fit in cause couples meet couples, and the lifestyle is AGAINST CHEATERS and they look down on them.

    As you go in the club the first thing you do is to give your drinks to the bar tender, they usually label the drink with your name, so they know is yours.
    There is also an awesome buffet with food and desserts. The food believe it or not is typically pretty good.

    There is also a dj playing top 40 pop or Latin music (if Latin night).

    The good thing about the swing clubs is that it is similar dynamics to a regular club, the difference is that some girls are dress a bit more slutty than the club, they dress to a slutty level of hallowing.

    Usually there are social circles and couples that know each other, you can usually spot the shy/newbie couple, and usually other couples that were there once upon a time, open them and do small talk to feel the vibe, sometimes they talk to new couples about dynamics and how it works. This is good that people unlike clubs are a bit more friendly and down to earth.

    Unlike a club that on the tv screen has music videos in a swing club on the screen you will see porn movies. There are also couple of poles through the club, but usually in the dance floor there will not be anybody naked, again it looks and feels like a regular type club.

    Now towards the back the typical swing club have a social type room, where people are fully clothe but the dude may have the girl give him a bj or doing stuff to the girl, and lurkers come by. This is a good system to find out what other couple, dudes or girls may give you interest or approach invites.

    Ex. In the middle room I have the girl I am with give me a bj while a bunch of dudes or girls come and start caressing her ass, or some girl may come and give me a bj etc… You may think I have big confidence, but remember this is very common and other couples are doing the same, so is normal in a swing club.

    Then there is the lockers, the lockers are unisex were men and women can go in take the regulars clothes off and put a towel around (to go to the main back room you cannot go in with clothes)

    In the back room that is where the regular swing club begins, again you need to go in semi naked (towel around). You will have many attendants that have towels, disinfectants and condoms with a little car moving around in case someone needs something.

    In the back room there are many rooms were you can lock the door you can be private with your new girl that you swap, or with the couple that you picked up or _________ whatever fantasy you want, but again the key is you can lock the door and you have your own room.

    There are also some objects in swing clubs like a gynecology type device, sexy cabins, glory holes etc…

    I do not know about the women bathroom, but in the men bathroom there is also cups with mouth wash available.

    Just like regular clubs that have a regular night rhythm/vibe same thing applies to swing clubs but the vibe dynamics is people much more friendly and open minded than in regular clubs.
    I will not cover clove dynamics of swing clubs much, cause there are many variables unlike a club, but just like a club there is the arrival time, warm up time (people usually talking and dancing with clothes on), pick up time (usually after 2 hours in the middle room people messing around with clothes on, bjs and light touching is big in there.)

    Then the last room is the couple only rooms, were there is a huge bed connected the size of small club is design strategically so people can belong and touch each other, so you could be doing a girl and can reach out and touch another girl.

    How to game in a swing club:

    First let me tell you some dudes in the community that do or are familiar with this type of game (they may have different style, geographical location, setting or experience: Teevester aka Tva_oslo, Revelifestyledesign, chitownmaverick, nwp, Uncle Walker, Jetsetjim.

    Women that are into the lifestyle, my friend lovergirl (I originally wanted her to write this post but she has onitis lately), you can read about her experiences in this blog https://lifeofalovergirl.wordpress.com/

    I don’t care what anybody says the key to swing club game is to go in with a HOT GIRL, or above average girl, period end of story. WOMEN RUN THE GAME IN SWING CLUBS. So I would advise you to do some coaching to your girl, or just have a hot girl, they don’t need game. When I used to go with my main, I had the pick of the litter, but she has and amazing body especially naked. (Of course for dudes that are into curvy women).

    If you are a hot dude, you may be ok, but again if you have the choice of being a hot dude or going with a hot girl, you will do way better having a hot girl. I actually recommend not going by yourself since is lower value, with this being said there are those couples/women that are into gangbanging, but in my experience, they are minority.(lovergirl for example). My theory is that the dudes control the girl so if there is a hot girl they want, women to please them, will swap, get me.

    If I want to open or game another couple or girl the best thing to do is to send your girl in, for example if a girl is giving a bj to another dude, you send your girl to touch gently/caress the other girls ass (by the way this does not mean your girl is gay or bi, it just how it works)

    I recommend that you and your girl have some type of signals in case she is getting creped out or does not feel comfortable. Most dudes get the hint, unfortunately there are some dudes that don’t, they are usually a very small minority if you are in the couple only area. If you are in the no couple area and getting creeped out, the best thing is to stop doing what you are doing and move, if they are not getting the hints. Note.- You will feel like a hot girl rejecting guys, and you will get to experience what women have to deal with in the clubs with creepers.

    Again the problem happens more when you are in the back room not the couples only room, were you will have a bunch of single guys creeping out women (some women like the attention though). Let me explain let say I am with a hot girl doing doggy style and you if you know me I am an ass dude, so my girls usually have nice asses. As I am doing doggy you will have the creepers hoping for a bj jerking off next to the girl I am with face, or grabbing her ass as I am going in and out. Or let’s say she is giving me a bj you will have 5 dudes around her trying to touch her. This is ok to do for a little bit so your girl can feel important and validated, but some dudes are just creepers and don’t fucking get the hints that is when you have to jump in, and tell them nicely to stop.

    Here is an idea of a good swing club (this is the one I go to): http://trapezeclub.com/

    Paranoia of stds:

    There is LESS RISK OF STD if you are in the lifestyle according to the center for disease control for more information follow the link:
    http://coupledoingit.com/2010/12/18/...ing-lifestyle/

    Different levels of foreplay:

    Couple have levels of comfort, some are only touch (no sex/no oral), some oral and no sex, some have to be present during the sexual activity, some women only allow doggy etc… etc… In other words whatever parameter the couple at that stage in the relationship is comfortable with.

    Conclusion.-
    Since I am a club gamer getting bored (have been doing clubs none stop for more than 20 years), I may transition to this extension of club game eventually, but I am really into dancing. With that being said if you frequent this type of club you may never want to ever go out to regular club again or do any other type of game, since they are tons of fun and you will always get laid or multiple bjs. Caveat. - This is very addictive as well, so be careful.

    Complementary reading:

    The secret society of sex by tyler:
    http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inne...ecret-society/

    Poly parties chitown (rip)
    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...rties-Are-Like

    nwp lay report "I fuck my primary mom":

    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...ucking-Her-Mom



  • #2
    my main told me about this show, i just watched the first episode, it is on A & E,it is called " neighbors with benefit", if you are interested in the lifestyle the show gives you a good idea:



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    • #3
      ok since there are so many discussions lately about this, bumping it!


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      • #4
        rereading it now. there's not enough pua's talking about this which is weird as fuck. I spent a decade learning game and on top form i'll fuck like 3 girls putting in work all week. sex club I go a friday and saturday and I'll get 3-5+ new lays each night. insane metrics. also the girls are wayyyy more sex positive the club games the girls for you. the myth that girls there are not hot is just not true. you'll find girls as hot as you'll see at any other club. think it's a last ditch effort by jealous types to repress peoples sexuality lol

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Jack Gignac View Post
          rereading it now. there's not enough pua's talking about this which is weird as fuck. I spent a decade learning game and on top form i'll fuck like 3 girls putting in work all week. sex club I go a friday and saturday and I'll get 3-5+ new lays each night. insane metrics. also the girls are wayyyy more sex positive the club games the girls for you. the myth that girls there are not hot is just not true. you'll find girls as hot as you'll see at any other club. think it's a last ditch effort by jealous types to repress peoples sexuality lol


          reasons for that, but MY OPINION/SPECULATION:

          - Most have Madonna/whore complex

          - most kj that women are not hot enough.

          - is expensive

          -most tried it and moved on that stage (teevester/me)

          -and most do not have the skill level needed to pull it off (which i think is the main reason)... Is not easy to convince women to go to swingclubs (though it actually is)




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          • #6
            Originally posted by Skills360 View Post



            reasons for that, but MY OPINION/SPECULATION:

            - Most have Madonna/whore complex

            - most kj that women are not hot enough.

            - is expensive

            -most tried it and moved on that stage (teevester/me)

            -and most do not have the skill level needed to pull it off (which i think is the main reason)... Is not easy to convince women to go to swingclubs (though it actually is)


            1) madonna whore yeah so many guys have it. especially roosh v forum guys / red pills
            2) yeah stupid go and saee for yourself once
            3) this is limiting factor for me for sure but like I said found work arounds for now.
            4) what made you move on from it? it's the best don't see why you'd stop if you can pull it off
            5) the skill yes and most guys who have that level of skill are usually too busy to post on a forum like this. 90% of the guys just have one partner too they're not like me where I can acctually bring a different girl to it. It's not really about convincing imo it's more about volume and like 1 in 5 girls or so would just follow your lead and do it. So it's just like sex some girls are dtf. lose some for multiple times. lose some at anal etfc. this is just another step of compliance. Yes there are some girls that were like on the fence but they trust me and because I have experience they knew what to expect and it was fine.

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            • Skills360

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              as i told you for me is just i stop doing it a while back cause for me i lost the novelty, got expensive and far.... My sex drive has decline too, my next goal is trt. 1-5 bad ratio.... Once i was sleeping with girls i had a 4-5 ratio or higher...

          • #7
            this is something that would have interested in before finding game. when i first learned that itís lretty easy to get laid i was worried about becoming a sex addict. but as i got into abundance i raised my standards and iím not longer interested in sleeping with any cute girl that will have me.

            to each his own and no judgment. but i only want to sleep with chicks i find very attractive and also connect with. sex has become just not such a big deal to me. wasnít always the case. i was fucking two girls a week from tinder for a while. my first year in game i probably had 50 tinder lays and another 20 from cold approach. no judgment of you. but for myself i realized i was desperate. where did the insatiable sex appetite come from? for me it came down to not feeling enough and not feeling like i deserved love. had it not been for the promiscuity i may not have found my way into treatment. i thank god i did because i never want to get to the point where iím gong to sex clubs.

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            • #8
              lol yes there can be dark reasons why guys like sex but also realize that we're biologically wired to spread the seed it doesn't necessarily have to be from some deep psychological insecurity. For me I think I just really love fucking new girls and I get great connections through fucking lots of different girls the girls that we mutually connect with stick around it's the most fun way to find a connection imo. For regulars I don't do lower than 8.5 on my scale. People overcomplicate sex. sex is a drive/hunger. so much societal bullshit about it and make it more complicated. two people are attracted to each other and wanna fuck. then fuck. lol I had health problems where I had zero libido for MONTHS. I didn't go to sex clubs or try to pull girls home. I just socialized instead. This for me is proof that I just like sex for sex sake

              Skills360 what do you mean by your ratio? my sex drive is low too but I just edge and it pools the dopamine in the brain. I thought you were independently wealthy?

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              • #9
                Originally posted by allmyfriendsaredead View Post
                this is something that would have interested in before finding game. when i first learned that itís lretty easy to get laid i was worried about becoming a sex addict. but as i got into abundance i raised my standards and iím not longer interested in sleeping with any cute girl that will have me.

                to each his own and no judgment. but i only want to sleep with chicks i find very attractive and also connect with. sex has become just not such a big deal to me. ..
                ^ very good points, that eventually will happen to most..... And get out of that stage, razor jack also brings up that point... very good...Steve Jabba as well


                P.s. of course your ras is also focus on this due to you are in a mono relationship now...


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                • #10
                  Originally posted by Skills360 View Post

                  ^ very good points, that eventually will happen to most..... And get out of that stage, razor jack also brings up that point... very good...Steve Jabba as well


                  P.s. of course your ras is also focus on this due to you are in a mono relationship now...
                  lmao my natural buddy is in a mono relationship now too and thinks same thought line. it's also what girls want to hear XD 'I got it out of my system baby'

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                  • #11
                    Originally posted by Jack Gignac View Post
                    Skills360 what do you mean by your ratio? my sex drive is low too but I just edge and it pools the dopamine in the brain. I thought you were independently wealthy?
                    Yes the thing is once you start going to this clubs, is extremely addictive, once you stop going the other way, is hard to get in flow of things... My sex drive is not low but for me it just pass a bit the stage of sex for sex, vs sex with connection (i know i sound like a faggot), before it was i see a girl and she is hot i want to bang her.... Now is i see a girl and she is hot, i am attracted, i enjoy her as a person and i connect then sex....

                    pipi in vagina no connection is very unfulfilling to me at this points, but remember i am 44...


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                    • #12
                      Originally posted by Skills360 View Post

                      Yes the thing is once you start going to this clubs, is extremely addictive, once you stop going the other way, is hard to get in flow of things... My sex drive is not low but for me it just pass a bit the stage of sex for sex, vs sex with connection (i know i sound like a faggot), before it was i see a girl and she is hot i want to bang her.... Now is i see a girl and she is hot, i am attracted, i enjoy her as a person and i connect then sex....

                      pipi in vagina no connection is very unfulfilling to me at this points, but remember i am 44...
                      I cannot connect with a girl until after I fucked her. what do you mean by your ratio you said earlier? I'm 28 right now.

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                      • #13
                        Originally posted by Jack Gignac View Post

                        I cannot connect with a girl until after I fucked her. what do you mean by your ratio you said earlier? I'm 28 right now.
                        you said your ratio of taking a girl you are having sex with is 1 in 5, is beyond horrible ratio since you are having sex with them...

                        my ratio is about 4 in 5 (probably 5 in 5 but is been so long, but i think i took every girls i wanted to take there, i even gave them to students and friends)....

                        I even offer tank and travelandmuseum that came to see me to go there and offer them girls (both refused, cheap bastards)


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                        • #14
                          Originally posted by Skills360 View Post

                          you said your ratio of taking a girl you are having sex with is 1 in 5, is beyond horrible ratio since you are having sex with them...

                          my ratio is about 4 in 5 (probably 5 in 5 but is been so long, but i think i took every girls i wanted to take there, i even gave them to students and friends)....

                          I even offer tank and travelandmuseum that came to see me to go there and offer them girls (both refused, cheap bastards)
                          I don't make a hardcore effort to get them too and I don't like having to heavily persuade. did you write on how to persuade in your article? I'll give it a try maybe if you have links I'll go with you if you're ever in my city. I don't like saying where i'm at except in private parts of forums cuz that's away from the creepy public.

                          not all that I asked where regular rotation though. my rotation right now is 19 year old russian (just fucked 2 times so far and tomorrow will be third), 20 year old fitness hottie from gym. asian girl from daygame (she came with me) and 16 year old girl (legal where I'm at). from those brought 1 and the other 2 said they're down after exams. the 16 year old obviously not legal but would have come if she was able to attend.

                          1 in 5 in terms of girls that I actually banged once before but not rotation though lol like the girl I brought saturday I hadn't banged her in a year and just randomly facebook messaged her LMFAO and she was down

                          So I guess for rotation it's similar to you yes 4 in 5 my bad. Overall bangs though 1 in 5.

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                          • #15
                            iím definitely more of the dating mentality than most here. my first year there were a lot of good times. but now, and i know this is partly ego, i just donít feel like a lot of girls deserve me. sounds crazy but a lot of the time when iím our and a girls interested sheíll say she wants to exchange numbers and iíll be like ďnot interested.Ē i see myself as having too much value to just pass myself around like a cold. i donít want to be the town bike that everyone gets to ride.

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