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    So I'm moving into Uni halls tomorrow. Going in at 27 years old, I feel that I am ready to kill it here, especially now that I finally will have my own room.

    What are the general do's and don't of uni game? My intuition tells me that indirect day game, as opposed to direct day game would be the way forward. Don't want to be that guy who has cold approached 300 chicks in a month, even if it accounts to 5 lays. Would build up the wrong kind of reputation in no time.

    Any suggestions?

  • #2
    How big is your city? How large is your uni student population? Any other universities? No need to restrict yourself to your own campus...

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    • #3
      I'll be in North London.

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      • #4
        Well, I am in London too... I did a bit of direct daygame on campus, but only after I left uni. Never felt comfortable doing direct approaches when I was studying there.



        Uni chicks tend to hang in their own established circles, so the chances are low that you'll get anywhere if you are just a random outsider talking to her on a street. Unless her social circle is limited for whatever reason (say a PhD student with barely enough time to socialise). I wouldn't rack up many approaches on campus, in any case. Better to approach in a nearby more neutral location, or just head to another uni. Plenty to choose from in London.

        Also, I'd do what Impulse suggested and try to integrate in the campus social scene. Are you a first year? Then you'll have plenty of chances to socialise.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by V man View Post
          Well, I am in London too... I did a bit of direct daygame on campus, but only after I left uni. Never felt comfortable doing direct approaches when I was studying there.



          Uni chicks tend to hang in their own established circles, so the chances are low that you'll get anywhere if you are just a random outsider talking to her on a street. Unless her social circle is limited for whatever reason (say a PhD student with barely enough time to socialise). I wouldn't rack up many approaches on campus, in any case. Better to approach in a nearby more neutral location, or just head to another uni. Plenty to choose from in London.

          Also, I'd do what Impulse suggested and try to integrate in the campus social scene. Are you a first year? Then you'll have plenty of chances to socialise.
          Yeah, this was my thinking. I've daygame-d around Uni campuses before and been to many student raves. I had the assumption that being a student may change prospects, but it doesn't seem like it will.

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          • #6
            if its chill with you, i'd suggest learning how to project some non-neediness.

            indirect openers, and situational openers are a good way to start. basically try to imagine you're in a pub, full of just hot young women, but every single one of them is stone sober. so yes you can have sex with them, probably every single one of them given time and elbow grease.

            if that's your thing... then go for it. most people can't be bothered though. however you *must* go at her pace.

            if not you will become THAT guy. you already know what he looks like, loud, brash and grossly un-calibrated. you wanna be the opposite of him. ijjji likes to call this omega game, and it's a super cool concept. but yeah, once you can get that picture in your head it will start to click. slowly at first. then you can start blurring.

            remember that the other guys do not *exist* in university. it's just you and the girls.

            and have fun man... it's a whorehouse over there.
            Last edited by Bacchus; 10-03-2016, 08:05 PM.
            “You know I cant hear none of that spend the night shit... that kumbaya shit”

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            • #7
              So I started university today. Saw many hot chicks around the campus which was a positive. Opened a couple chicks in different queue's asking whether they had been waiting long. Opened another chick sitting down asking about the Uni wifi. All sets were very short lived.

              I'm used to opening chicks directly, or if I do open indirectly/situational, I usually start teasing them very quickly to set a man/woman frame.

              Issue at first seems to be seguing from an casual indirect opening to hitting on them directly.

              My intuition tells me to avoid scenarios where I see a girl and walk straight to her, rather creating more natural situations to open, such as positioning myself near her table or accidentally running into her. Wondering what other natural openings and openers would be?

              Also, wondering whether to drop my usual pick up chat, and going for a more small talk method. What are you studying? Are you a first year? Etc.

              Again, I'm used to being direct, which immediately sets the right tone and sets me in the right frame of mind. Trying to figure out how to do this when opening indirectly. Should I open indirectly and then start hitting on them?

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              • #8
                Originally posted by hey_lover View Post
                My intuition tells me to avoid scenarios where I see a girl and walk straight to her, rather creating more natural situations to open, such as positioning myself near her table or accidentally running into her. Wondering what other natural openings they may be?
                yeah, this is good thinking.

                i like to look at my phone a lot, then randomly sit next to someone, without looking away from my phone. then i can open with anything. (credit Gunwitch.) i try to avoid moving targets unless i cannot really help myself. most of the girls i seduce these days are stationary.

                Originally posted by hey_lover View Post
                Also, wondering whether to drop my usual pick up chat, and going for a more small talk method. What are you studying? Are you a first year? Etc.
                you're on the right track. avoid asking too many questions... create a bubble instead.

                Originally posted by hey_lover View Post
                Trying to figure out how to do this when opening indirectly. Should I open indirectly and then start hitting on them?
                absolutely not.
                “You know I cant hear none of that spend the night shit... that kumbaya shit”

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                • #9
                  absolutely not.
                  By not hitting on them should he instead be just keeping things chill and not too sexual? IE not too heavy with things like innuendo etc? what's your idea of hitting on that he shouldn't be doing?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Bottlejob View Post
                    By not hitting on them should he instead be just keeping things chill and not too sexual? IE not too heavy with things like innuendo etc? what's your idea of hitting on that he shouldn't be doing?
                    umm... this is quite abstract to me right now.

                    but basically, if you can get laid from street game. then social circle will be very weird for you. because well... street game is a weird way to get laid. so to tone things down, you'll have to abandon your entire game and start from scratch. which is what i did when i showed up here because day gaming was just like gaming in niche social circles. so i'd recommend reading these threads, and start applying whatever you haven't already gotten you laid on the regular.

                    take your time reading them, and field testin'

                    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...pical-Approach
                    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...en-Effectively
                    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...Chad-SoFasttt)
                    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...ng-Hard-Bubble
                    “You know I cant hear none of that spend the night shit... that kumbaya shit”

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                    • #11
                      Had a couple interesting interactions lately and a LMR failure during my first week at uni. I must say, I have to quit drinking, because I'm feeling totally mashed.

                      Anyway, I number closed a girl who was highly receptive in the study area whose parting message was 'I find text messaging really boring.' I didn't know how to take that, so I did my usual thing of texting her an hour later telling her it was nice to meet her. She didn't respond. Called her the next day, no response. First time anyone ever said that to me.

                      I met another girl during a campus party who after 30 minutes of intermittent talking told me that, she liked that I wasn't like other guys and only wanted sex, that I was really cool, cute, she told me twice that she really just wants to be a friend. She was single, but spoke plenty about her ex, though I can't recall if I led her in that direction or not. I took her friend request at face value and moved on to the next girl, but again, this was something I've never heard.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by hey_lover View Post
                        I took her friend request at face value and moved on to the next girl, but again, this was something I've never heard.
                        I actually believe that taking phone numbers in uni... is useless. Field tested. You'll end up confusing her. Right now you're coming across as a guy who wants sex. And you're playing the game of a guy who wants a girlfriend... taking numbers... day2... is how to get a girl coming back for more.

                        To actually drown in college pussy. DON'T do day game. Because it's not congruent to the environment that you're in at ALL. Go to the dorm parties and college bars. Hang around, have a few drinks and relax. Talk to some of your friends. Flirt/hit-on everyone. Then once you see a girl you'd actually like to fuck. Use the bubble.

                        She'll end up pulling you to her dorm room. You'll watch Nexflix and then have a one night stand.

                        Rinse and repeat till you graduate.
                        “You know I cant hear none of that spend the night shit... that kumbaya shit”

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                        • #13
                          I'm a little confused myself. I did another approach today. Saw a girl by the water fountain so I opened her spontaneously. I bounced her 90 seconds later to a nearby bench. We bubbled and she asked me to come with her to warm her lunch and enquire about her schedule. She enthusiastically agrees to meeting up again. Messaged her a little while late after the number close. Again, no response. What the fuck? I've done the no-number close too, where I met a chick on the train back to the uni area. We bubbled for about 20 minutes, and her friends were waiting there. I didn't number close, but the result was no different.

                          To be honest, I don't know how the fuck I'm coming across. I don't know what girls think when they see and interact with me, and this is leaving me more confused than anything else. Do they expect me to lead her to the back of class and finger her, or does she expect me to dine her. I don't know what kind of vibe I'm giving, so I don't know what to adjust. I stand straight, speak deeply and slowly, look straight in the eyes, make jokes, touch them, ask interesting questions, etc.

                          I'm more than a little startled and disappointed at the fact that I can't dive into daygame. My uni is not small, but it's not big enough to not be noticed. I've had to really try and hold it down in regards to cold approaching, because my balls are saying GATA. I did actually do one direct cold approach in the study room where a stripper looking chick just had to be opened. Let's ignore the fact that she was 4 inches taller than me, albeit she was sitting down, I just had to show her my masculinity. Her eyes lit up as they usually do when they see strong man approach, but unfortunately she was holding on the line for a phone call, and the person on the other end finally replied.

                          Bacchus, why is it not congruent to the environment? I've only been to one campus party, where I actually got the furthest into her fucking bed, but by that point, the alcohol had left her system and she came back to her senses and told me it's too early to fuck and firmly pushed away my physical advances.

                          Fortunately, there's a motherfucking gym, which I joined, and I casually opened 2 chicks through gym related conversation, which I hope to transform into sexy time.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by hey_lover View Post
                            I'm a little confused myself. I did another approach today. Saw a girl by the water fountain so I opened her spontaneously. I bounced her 90 seconds later to a nearby bench. We bubbled and she asked me to come with her to warm her lunch and enquire about her schedule. She enthusiastically agrees to meeting up again. Messaged her a little while late after the number close. Again, no response. What the fuck?.
                            How do you know there's no response? Its the same fucking day!

                            Stop living in minutes and hours, and start living in days and weeks. This girl will be around for at least the semester, probably the year, at least.

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                            • #15
                              fuck mate i miss uni times.

                              the odd time i make an apperance at an old uni party it's like shooting fish in a barrel.

                              try to get a sense of who know'ze where the good partys are. usually the best bets are a girl who you friendzone that's crushing on you, or a guy that's connected but is less socially savvy than you so wants you around to 'pickup chicks togethers' lol

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