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    I've coined two terms that I think might not be in the mainstream, but are useful.

    The first is Winner's Perspective (WP).

    The second is Catering to the Intellect (CTTI).

    I think your understanding of these is crucial to your success with anything. I am writing this for women, but you will probably have the ability to extend it.

    "Women are easy. All you need to do is go over and smile, and they will suck your cock, balls and asshole."
    Yes. Perhaps. This is the Winner's Perspective, and you will see clusters of chads actually thinking this is how it is.

    "You just need to be confident."
    Yes. Perhaps. This is catering to the intellect. You're not WRONG, but you're not telling me HOW to do this.

    Both of these are absolute bullshit, and if you find yourself propagating this: Stop. You are not helping anyone. You are making it worse. You are making something that is extremely complicated seem simple and people who are actually searching for answers are being shot down because of you. Just fucking stop.

    Right now, I challenge you to go over your favorite posts by yourself and others and see how many of them are plagued by this: They tell you nothing.

    Understand: You will not learn from hearing people talk from WP. You will not learn from CTTI.

    Then, if most posts are from either WP or CTTI, what the fuck are you supposed to do?

    1. You detraumatize.

    And you take the time it takes. The body IS your subconcious mind. EVERYONE I KNOW who wasn't already fantastic with women has become excessively good with women (with one or two exceptions). If you ignore TRE and the like, talking to you is like talking to a bucket of garbage. In the literal sense.

    You need to be ready to learn. Your body cannot learn if it is in trauma, and you probably are. Your mind cannot learn if your body cannot.

    2. You rebuild

    You need to be broken down before you build yourself. If you rise from TRE and the like, chances are you will no longer be on this message board. Because you do not need to.

    3. You keep going

    When you have the tools to fix whatever was wrong in the first place, you can actually push yourself. It means you are not going to make your own life a living hell by trying to do stuff you are not ready for. Be ready. Put on more weight.

    You can go out and say hello to people. More often than not, they will come to you. And when you see someone interesting you will not hesitate. The divide between you and other people has been broken.

    4. Repeat

    You go back to 1.

    Conclusion:

    I do not care about you for a second. I could not give a single fuck about you. Unless you are that muddy fucktard that actually reads this, takes it to heart and becomes a shining star. Then I care about you, and I want to hold you.

    First post:

    This is my first post on this board. I have written extensively about this, and if you want the PDFs, I will share, just send me a DM. I am not a commercial player.

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    "TRE"?

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    • #3
      good post ..only thing to add is you have to be mentored(coach) by someone who knows what the fuck they are doing , you need a proven solid plan. I look at this pua stuff like learning a trade(ima electrician) and for a hobby i play umvc3(fgc gamer) ive gotten better with women , practicing but more so after doing 2 bootcamps(proven plan on what to do ) and a day and night sesh with 2 coaches from 3sr. Even with that video game I wreck people online cuz i spent a few hours sharing and playing with pro fgc players. good wings and good mentors are huge for this ...I cant think of any badass coach (no one here ,sorry) who didnt have a decent mentor!

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      • #4
        I appreciate this post because it's true: most advice on here is WP or CTTI and both are incredibly useless, and frustrating to read.

        However, as someone who has steadily been progressing and getting laid more and more with cuter and cuter girls (generally, I still bang 6's tho to keep abundance), I'd like to think I know a thing or two about how to move from AFC to player (I consider myself a player now).

        One of the things I've noticed is CRUCIAL is knowing how it all works. Seduction, what gets girls to want to fuck you, what gets them to NOT want to fuck you, and how to maximize the former while eliminating the latter. I think if you can do that, the sex "just happens" (I totally take the WP position now but that is why, because I think it works that way).

        The whole point of game (to me) is to find CONSCIOUS ways to do either (maximize attractiveness and eliminate anything that makes you unfuckable) while simultaneously CONSCIOUSLY affecting the girl so she goes from a red to you fucking her.

        That is how I see game.

        Where I think this forum lacks is in the HOW TO department when it comes to HOW TO affect women so they go from red to fucking you. Or WHAT ARE the attractive behaviors we should maximize? WHAT ARE the bad behaviors we should eliminate? We should have an almanac by now. A god damn encyclopedia of all that shit but we don't because users would rather stroke their egos by posting field reports that have no practical/understandable information in them, or enigmatic posts so they can be "mysterious". I ain't got time for that, and have progressed mostly because I STOPPED listening to such posters.

        I'm guilty of ego stroking posts too however. At the moment, I'm posting field reports to simply gain credibility. Once I've got enough evidence that people can't deny I know how to game, I will make that encyclopedia and wipe the WP/CTTI posters from the forum! MUAAHHAHAHAHAAA!! *** Half joking

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        • No More Mr Nice Guy
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          Sarge,, IIRC, you did some psychological testing, and scored as borderline Asperger’s, correct?

          If so, I think that would explain a lot of your difficulties applying proven seduction techniques.

        • No More Mr Nice Guy
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          However, you seem to be doing much better online recently. So you are doing something right. Do you know what changed?

          Maybe write up a positive post about what you have learned would be helpful for any other guys who are currently struggling, like you were for so long.

        • SargeMaximus

          SargeMaximus

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          I did get tested and didn’t make the spectrum. I was a few points off but I did not land in it at all.

          Yes I’d love to but I don’t know where to begin. I feel a lot of it has been years in the making. Questions would help. But I can try when I get home.
          I’m just glad I’m fucking 7’s. It’s so cool to have gotten here and know it can only get better.

      • #5
        Sorry, I wrote that post when I was inebriated.

        Look at this six-year-old slide deck to have it all made clear: https://slides.com/cocporn/game

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        • #6
          Originally posted by COCPORN View Post
          Sorry, I wrote that post when I was inebriated.

          Look at this six-year-old slide deck to have it all made clear: https://slides.com/cocporn/game
          I liked the slide. Look forward to it's completion.

          Is that forum the new one Teevster has been talking about or is it a new one?

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          • SargeMaximus

            SargeMaximus

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            Cause I thought it was a work in progress that was going to deliver.

          • COCPORN

            COCPORN

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            Hi! I didn't mean to be negative. What parts in particular would you like to have elaborated?

            If anyone interested I could go over the ideas in a conference call.

          • SargeMaximus

            SargeMaximus

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            No worries. I’ll have a look at the slide again as I can’t remember off the top of my head. I’m also traveling right now so bear with me. I appreciate it tho, thank you.

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          COCPORN

          Pm Id set up a talk session.

          cheers

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          • #8
            Great. I am in CET+1. I would really enjoy discussing what I am talking about with live people.

            Just send me a PM and I will add you. I will do this on Zoom or something of that nature. I will cackle for 2 hours and go through the stack. And also be open to discussing most other things, including the core of the Tinder stack.

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