This stems from a post buried in this thread (http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...Sexual-Tension), which recently came up in another thread. I think this bit is worth a thread of its own.
Most everyone knows at least one guy who is always surrounded by hot women, seemingly effortlessly, who doesn't make strong moves, doesn't sweat anything, doesn't seem to try at all, and constantly has pussy fall in his lap. IA's Drummer Friend being an example that was repeatedly brought up on this forum.
I was able to live the "string-along fawning girls" lifestyle for a little over two years, and I've witnessed several other guys living it. It requires many traits, from logistics to attitude (I had to give this lifestyle up due to the logistics of my shifting work, which I prioritize over lifestyle, the lifestyle needs to support the mission). Here they are:
"String-Along Fawning Girls" traits:
1. Good looks/good style
2. Cool job/mission by society standards (ie girls can tell other girls "this guy I like does XYZ, and the other girls are "ooo wow that's cool.")
3. Secret society attitudes on sex and relationships
4. A strong "presence" (JWS explains: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...light=presence)
5. A rock-solid unshakable frame through which you see the world, that you have the ability to easily draw people into
6. Positive outlook on life (you're inspiring, people feel better/cooler being around you)
7. Detachment from outcome (you don't actually care if you get laid tonight, because you get so laid. Or, outside seduction for example, you don't actually care if your band gets the gig this friday, because your band gets so many gigs.)
8. Oblivious to negative outcome (you think you're shooting 100% when you only shoot 50%, because they don't even register the losing 50%.)
9. Actual abundance (not abundance mentality), you actually have a large social circle of (ideally) good looking/high value people that you spend the bulk of your time with
10. Logistical control (your spot is the get-together spot, or you're hanging out at "your" bar or "your" club, etc. Essentially you hang out at places you're known and you've already established your social dominance. You're generally the one who decides where the group is hanging out.)
11. Push/pull pursuits (you show enough interest to get interest back, then pull it away, repeatedly, for everyone, girl and guy, sexual target or no. You give JUST ENOUGH and that's it.)
12. Zero urgency (You have ZERO immediate needs. You're good to go with whatever, just taking what comes as it comes. You essentially plant hot-girl seeds everywhere, water them as necessary, and pluck the fruit when its ripe. You're not trying to force a vine to grow, you just plant and water, then pick the fruit when its there.)
If you can tick every box above, you should find yourself effortlessly (after putting in the effort to tick all the boxes at least) swamped in pussy. When thinking of myself at the times of my life where I've had this, and those guys I personally know that have this, all of the above are included. I've seen several different versions of this once you get down to the specifics.
Everyone feel free to expand.
Most everyone knows at least one guy who is always surrounded by hot women, seemingly effortlessly, who doesn't make strong moves, doesn't sweat anything, doesn't seem to try at all, and constantly has pussy fall in his lap. IA's Drummer Friend being an example that was repeatedly brought up on this forum.
I was able to live the "string-along fawning girls" lifestyle for a little over two years, and I've witnessed several other guys living it. It requires many traits, from logistics to attitude (I had to give this lifestyle up due to the logistics of my shifting work, which I prioritize over lifestyle, the lifestyle needs to support the mission). Here they are:
"String-Along Fawning Girls" traits:
1. Good looks/good style
2. Cool job/mission by society standards (ie girls can tell other girls "this guy I like does XYZ, and the other girls are "ooo wow that's cool.")
3. Secret society attitudes on sex and relationships
4. A strong "presence" (JWS explains: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...light=presence)
5. A rock-solid unshakable frame through which you see the world, that you have the ability to easily draw people into
6. Positive outlook on life (you're inspiring, people feel better/cooler being around you)
7. Detachment from outcome (you don't actually care if you get laid tonight, because you get so laid. Or, outside seduction for example, you don't actually care if your band gets the gig this friday, because your band gets so many gigs.)
8. Oblivious to negative outcome (you think you're shooting 100% when you only shoot 50%, because they don't even register the losing 50%.)
9. Actual abundance (not abundance mentality), you actually have a large social circle of (ideally) good looking/high value people that you spend the bulk of your time with
10. Logistical control (your spot is the get-together spot, or you're hanging out at "your" bar or "your" club, etc. Essentially you hang out at places you're known and you've already established your social dominance. You're generally the one who decides where the group is hanging out.)
11. Push/pull pursuits (you show enough interest to get interest back, then pull it away, repeatedly, for everyone, girl and guy, sexual target or no. You give JUST ENOUGH and that's it.)
12. Zero urgency (You have ZERO immediate needs. You're good to go with whatever, just taking what comes as it comes. You essentially plant hot-girl seeds everywhere, water them as necessary, and pluck the fruit when its ripe. You're not trying to force a vine to grow, you just plant and water, then pick the fruit when its there.)
If you can tick every box above, you should find yourself effortlessly (after putting in the effort to tick all the boxes at least) swamped in pussy. When thinking of myself at the times of my life where I've had this, and those guys I personally know that have this, all of the above are included. I've seen several different versions of this once you get down to the specifics.
Everyone feel free to expand.
Comment