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    Loves: Shy Girl-coding into Starry-eyed Extroversion, spamming Open-loops and Mini-cold-reads and lots of light kino.
    Hates: Putting pressure on others. Things that feel 'brainy'.

  • #2
    I know this feeling :P
    Nicely designed
    Good idea
    Clear, and I might even use this for a couple small things I might need to clean up in my game (just to smash out some cobwebs, give it some polish around some neglected edges etc)

    This is a pearl/ one of the best things you've designed.

    Haha, I like "radiant habit" lol.

    Acccctually, (slots into some other maps he has)
    Whoa... (cuz I realised what radiant habit meant so linked some other maps to it)

    ...

    Oh shit yeah. Man, you deserve a beer for this one.
    If people don't know what the fuck he is saying here, you don't know nightgame (imo)


    It isn't ALL of game, but like, its like 1 fifteenth of it presented all neat and tidy. Takes some serious mental ability to do that, and quite some generosity to share.
    Very well done ij...

    If you were on stage I'd give you a slow clap, to start a standing ovation.

    Nah, really cool man, real cool

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    • #3
      It's a guideline rather than a rule, but keep this in mind for next time (from posting rules and guidelines):

      6. Refrain from putting your own username in the subject of your posts. Itís arrogant and no one is interested.
      ~Tubarao
      fuzzyandoj.com
      www.crushingpavement.com

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      • #4
        Originally posted by thecostofsuccess
        Its his image though, like copyright. I don't think that rule applies exactly. To be fair.
        I was talking about putting his name in the thread title.

        EDIT: It doesn't bother me personally. I just wanted to comment on it so that other posters are aware of it.
        ~Tubarao
        fuzzyandoj.com
        www.crushingpavement.com

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Tubarao View Post
          I was talking about putting his name in the thread title.

          EDIT: It doesn't bother me personally. I just wanted to comment on it so that other posters are aware of it.
          Aight, perfect, I should have assumed. Cool bro
          What do you think of the map

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          • #6
            Originally posted by thecostofsuccess View Post
            Aight, perfect, I should have assumed. Cool bro
            What do you think of the map
            They're good bullet items to keep in mind when you're out, although for purpose of the post I think it would help if Ij described the various items for less experienced readers (and I'll admit some of it is over my head too).
            ~Tubarao
            fuzzyandoj.com
            www.crushingpavement.com

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Tubarao View Post
              They're good bullet items to keep in mind when you're out, although for purpose of the post I think it would help if Ij described the various items for less experienced readers (and I'll admit some of it is over my head too).
              Cool, good to know man,
              Aight I'll see if I can help out with that,

              Radiant Habit:
              This means to have subconscious competance, but more specifically, it is illustrating that your game should be founded on good well established habits and foundations, that radiate into your natural behaviors. It sort of implies that the habit is healthy, fun, vital, and interesting, which projects a positive outlook on your life, your activities and your own interests.

              Sensing:
              To sense means to lower your thought patterns from beta waves down to low alpha waves. What this means is, removing yourself from a highly agitated state, and bringing yourself down into a very calm state, that is more receptive to environment and peripheral cues. Slowing down, easing rigidity, setting up more confident body language, moving around the bar with a gentler gate, soft gazing.

              Connecting:
              This is what makes sensing effective, if you are just relaxed and have no fire in your belly, then you don't really ping women and come across as signalling you are awake and ready. This means, adding alertness to your posture, it means arcing your back a little, sharpening the contrast or focus in your eyes, looking up a little more, squeezing your muscles a little bit, and preparing your vocal chords and other centres for speech, movement, rar rar rar.

              Breathing it all in:
              Amused:
              Sultry:

              This is a gradient of behaviors that essentially break rapport. They break rapport by breaking awareness, by breaking concern, and by breaking sexual betaization. You actually go through all of these.
              Meaning... You make sure you aren't hooked on the scenario around you, and make sure that nobody can fuck with you. Then you make sure that nobody can get your attention from negativity (being amused). And you forwardly display sexual prowess to show that any restrictions do not apply to you.

              You have already signalled to women that you are alert, but now they are following your frame set by these three screening standards.

              Dumb drunk, Inner smile, The look, Mingle, Gravitate, Indulge:

              Is actually an escalation sequence. Showing higher and higher interest levels.
              Dumb drunk just shows you are vulnerable (who would take advantage! shameless ones thats who!)
              Inner smile just shows you are unusually receptive (here is my chance with the hot one they think)
              The look shows control which puts people on the back foot, but it also indicates interest
              Mingle, this is about breaking rapport AFTER showing you have control of the scene around you, it shows an abundance mindset
              Gravitate, this shows that you have seen something you like, and are staking a claim in that direction/validating it (like a girl might gravitate to a DJ)
              Indulge, this means the person is actively intermingling with something they desire, and spikes envy

              ~~~

              In short, what Ijjjji is kinda showing, that my examples are highlighting, is that there is a fluidity to night game, that starts from having good habits, good foundations, getting in the right place, setting up the right frames, and then interacting with the right kind of scale of interest.

              Ij has gone into those specific pieces individually over time, so if you look up each specific part, from radiant habit, to indulge, you will find an actually logical sequence from "heading out and preparing" to "getting laid".

              However, it is a mindset. A mindmap. A way of being.
              So it is not just a step by step guide, it is also something that you can fluidly adapt.

              My point, is that it is kind of "the spirit" or the rough approximation of the spirit of nightgame.

              Maybe this should clear up some of the stuff that is over your head. It really should show you some ways that you can understand how nightgame works.

              It isn't EVERYTHING about nightgame, but it is the kind of headlights of the car version of it, highlighting the direction you go, and what you go out there and actually do.

              Its much like a business structure, that you establish as a basis for sustainable and continued growth. It is cyclical, in that you ingrain habits constantly and it improves and nourishes each facet, which you apply ever more dynamically.

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              • #8
                Awesome! Good stuff, Cost.
                ~Tubarao
                fuzzyandoj.com
                www.crushingpavement.com

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Tubarao View Post
                  Awesome! Good stuff, Cost.
                  No probs

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                  • #10
                    Thanks for informing, Tub! Id edit it now if I could.

                    I left the explaining out intentionally this time for 2 reasons.
                    -I want guys to 'feel', rather than understand.
                    -I want guys to make their own 'sense' out of it after that, so congruent with their own experience. (Like Cozy did above! He is very gifted at articulating stuff like this! No way I could have explained it that well!)

                    Cozy, your ability to read between lines and articulate stuff that in theory is impossible to say with words, is at a freakishly high level. I loved reading that interpretation and found it 100% spot on!
                    Loves: Shy Girl-coding into Starry-eyed Extroversion, spamming Open-loops and Mini-cold-reads and lots of light kino.
                    Hates: Putting pressure on others. Things that feel 'brainy'.

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                    • #11
                      It would be interesting if you could outline a little information about the archetypes you've used. I've never seen 'The Shield' and I don't know what you mean by Mel Gibson. Presumably you don't go in a club and start ranting about Jews.
                      Find a way to help her to do all the things she wants to.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Solus View Post
                        It would be interesting if you could outline a little information about the archetypes you've used. I've never seen 'The Shield' and I don't know what you mean by Mel Gibson. Presumably you don't go in a club and start ranting about Jews.
                        Nah man, thats EXACTLY what you do! 60% of the time, it works every time... Oh yeah...

                        I think it means, being piercing and fascinated. Kinda like a girl stuffed with food in her mouth and you just said something badass that she can't spit it out to respond to in disbelief. Where she wants to stamp her foot down, and say NO NO NO!!! But loves it.

                        Soooo, you say something like "you know daisy, you are welcome to eat more of those muffins at my place, but I'm just not sure if I have enough" where she wants to punch you repeatedly. Throttle you, and play fuck you with her eyes and emotions.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by ijjjji View Post
                          A tip to Ij...

                          Concentric circles from the top right.

                          You can thank me later :P

                          ~~~

                          Then you can clean this up (you'll know how)

                          ~~~

                          Edit: Ah I see now...
                          It is a ratio.
                          Of how much control you give her
                          Discovery - Something happening to me (something happening is bottom left)

                          Yeah man! This is it. I've been looking for this
                          I've been too scattered to develop anything like it myself.
                          This is pure gold.
                          Literally, if I had a bar of gold, and the choice between this, I'd choose the gold, buuuut I'd be really close to choosing this instead :P

                          ~~~

                          Nah just kidding, I would choose this.
                          Its great, it is what I was kinda killing myself for not being able to develop.

                          Thanks man, really. This thing takes 10 years of painstaking work to sort of develop.
                          Its hardcore.

                          Frankly, its fantastic.

                          It is a precursor to your 9th symphony

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                          • #14
                            Connecting and Yawny are related.
                            Because if you are yawny without having CONNECTED with the environment this is very bad.
                            And makes you NEED to do the rest of the map.

                            If you are highly connected, then yawny is where you go. It is a bedroom like state.

                            However, if you want to keep alert with women, stay somewhere in the middle.

                            If you want to reingage fire in your belly and reconnect, do seduction, sultry stuff, like offer food.
                            This is the pattern.


                            Firey - Alert - Bedroom Yawn
                            That is how you learn it.
                            You litmus test firey, that makes you alert, and that makes you bedroom yawn.


                            It is more of a key than it is a map (ijjjji's key "hey I like that thing")
                            Anyways, I don't mean to interupt. Continue on. Really cool though.

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                            • #15
                              What would a daygame map look like if you had to throw one together real quick?

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