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  • #16
    Originally posted by thecostofsuccess View Post
    I don't give a shit, any time you go in there to read, know I don't want you there
    Simple as that

    I only give that stuff out to people who want to improve
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    Last edited by Impulse; 01-04-2017, 10:05 AM.
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    - People don't exist in the way you think they do
    - Early rising makes a world of difference

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    • #17
      Originally posted by Impulse View Post
      Dude, the stuff you talk about is pure nonsense..its not required at all to get laid. So, I have no interest in reading the drivel in your journal

      Literally 90% of what you write on here has no practical value..it sounds nice but its not actionable of itself

      So, im pretty much ignoring your advice because its kj...but I have listened to your points and understood them, and respected your replies without resorting to name calling like you are :P :P

      Think you could do with some TRE to loosen you up a bit...seems your pretty frustrated
      Impulse, I really think you should take some time off the forums, or at least posting and I say this with best intentions.

      You are stirring a lot of animosity and your communication style comes off as a know-it-all arrogant hot head bumping threads left and right and refusing to budge or admit when you are in the wrong.

      You see critic as a personal attack on your character.

      For example here; you insulted Cosy first without realizing it and then you turned the tables and cried wolf.

      Take some time to lurk and read more and reflect on your behavior and when you come back write up some FRs. You said you had a fear of being judged here if you write FRs, maybe you are afraid that it will expose you to not be on the skill level you would like everyone here to think you are on. I still think you should do it if you want to improve and get some real feedback otherwise you come of as a KJ. Especially with threads like these.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Impulse View Post
        Dude, the stuff you talk about is pure nonsense..its not required at all to get laid.
        Most of my advice is targetted at helping a guy either see something simpler or reflect back on the source of his issue
        To find that useful you gotta have enough self control to reflect back on the source of an issue, or enough motivation to cut away excessive thought processes and replace them with your own version of simpler/cleaner ones
        So, I have no interest in reading the drivel in your journal
        And thats why I don't want you there, your focus is entirely about you, and my journal isn't about you
        Literally 90% of what you write on here has no practical value..it sounds nice but its not actionable of itself
        And affirmations are actionable? Superiority complexes are actionable? etc etc

        Actually, I don't bother doing too much tricks based advice for guys, since I'm usually here just to interact and casually explain, if anyone has a "tricks" based question, I'll probably answer, (when you don't get laid tricks are all you can think about, when you do get laid, talking about them can be tedious)

        But its hard for people to find questions, often cuz they have frustrations getting in the way of techniques working anyways
        Most of seduction isn't the technique its what is behind it
        Thats why you both simplify your views and address the source of issues
        It helps your techniques work, it gets you doing things downhill rather than push it all uphill
        So, im pretty much ignoring your advice because its kj...
        No, you ignore advice because you ignore everything anyways
        Its not like if anyone sweet talks you, that you will do any listening,
        You'll pander to them for a few seconds then bring the convo back to you, and their contribution will have done nothing but scratch an itch of yours.
        How is that worth anyones effort?
        but I have listened to your points and understood them,
        "you understood them"
        I don't think youve really understood a damn thing anyone has said
        and respected your replies without resorting to name calling like you are :P :P
        You haven't at all respected anyone, thats the whole point
        Think you could do with some TRE to loosen you up a bit...seems your pretty frustrated

        How do I put this,
        You have retarded ideas that you need to erase
        I am helping you have enough conflict so you can get the fuck over yourself, since you so obviously crave resistance and difficulty
        But at the same time, why should I?
        When you are being so shitty to women,
        Why don't I just let you feel shitty every night you fail instead and shrug my shoulders "oh geez thats tough, I dunno how to solve that one man"
        Let you just endlessly talk to yourself while you post


        Don't you get it man, PEOPLE EXIST
        They are right here, why aren't you talking to any of them??

        You want people to talk to just so you can talk to yourself??
        You wanna talk to yourself with an audience??
        Well, I call you out on how you are treating people like disposable pieces of shit, cuz no one here is a disposable piece of shit and they don't have to put up with you using them for such trivial bullshit

        Don't you see that your every post uses people?
        I'm giving you shit so they aren't wasting their breath on you over and over
        I''m stopping you from this nonsense

        Why, cuz who the fuck are you?
        You can't even get laid so wtf are you even talking about?
        What feels like its going to work??

        Hows that any different than a gambler who sits at the slots and FEELS lucky today?

        But even if you could answer that well enough, what you going to do about the fact you don't have a use for anyone here???
        Either go away, or listen to guys,
        I don't care if you listen to me, but I'll call you out on moronic shit like the OP all day

        Only dipshits are so ungrateful to women, holy balls wtf is wrong with you to even think that shit is ok


        Go ahead, show a girl what you wrote,, then show her what I wrote, I'm gonna bet she'll know in silence that I'm right and you are just being weird as shit


        You are asking a lot from guys on the forum tolerating you or pitching in on your threads, so what are you going to give them back??
        Trite stuff like this op, nonsense about what you THINK might work, cuz it feels right?
        No man, head down, ass up, in field, WORKING TO FIND REAL SHIT
        Thats what we all want, not this trash

        And thats what it is man, its not subjective, this is utter trash, go out, work for your progress
        Don't sit in here moaning about how people are bullshit cuz they aren't gods who can hail a beam down from the heavens and turn a pumpkin into a carriage so you can go to the ball
        Grow up, stop acting like you are Cindarella

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        • #19
          Just to blow your mind a little, let me relate a thought my girlfriend told me the other day: perhaps men have bounded together for thousands of years to supress women as a society, individualize them into families not because they were the stronger gender but because they feared the collective womanhood way too much? So in a way the "natural leadership of men" is but another form of apartheid...

          My secondary woman is a single mother and has been since her child was born. Since spending time with her, I only partly realized how much strength and organization you'll need to make that work long-term, and she somehow manages it anyway. I do have deep respect for what she pulls off there. Or my sister, working 40hours as a hairdresser, then working another 10-20 hours privately as a hairdresser, coming home and cooking for the whole family of her boyfriend, cleaning the household, tending to her boyfriends needs, studying to pass her final exams, caring for a lot of friends and taking them through hard times... if I compare that to what her boyfriend is doing, she's much stronger than him and contributing much more even if she doesn't realize it. I'm not saying this is true for any man or woman, but I've noticed it many times so far: if needed, women seem to be able to muster much more inner strength than men can in the long run. Usually they just don't try to take as much credit than men tend to do :P

          But in general it's a stupid argument and pretty similar to the argument of how race affects the character of certain people and how because of this they should be treated a certain way. I'll agree with Martin Luther King Jr. on the line he supposedly said that I'll prefer a world in which everyone is judged by his character and not by his race, gender or whatever else you can think of to divide people into sub-groups.

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          • #20
            Had a talk with Cosy in private and sorted a few stuff out.
            Last edited by Impulse; 01-04-2017, 10:06 AM.
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            Key lessons:
            - The brain is a bullshit feeder
            - People don't exist in the way you think they do
            - Early rising makes a world of difference

            My journals:

            Sexual game journal
            Fundamentals journal
            Club game approaching journal
            Brain programming journal

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Impulse View Post
              Cosy you seem to be making a lot of assumptions once again dude

              Nowhere did I say im ungrateful to women, or unappreciate, or that I would say treat them like shit.....again...more assumptions that arent actually written there at all

              Once again, id highly recommend you try TRE and also EFT to loosen you up a little - seems you cant even see your own subconscious blocks and give neutral based replies

              Most of what you're writing here is highly reactive to your own thought processes - which is why Im calling it mental masturbation

              You'll become reactive to thought processes when you aren't truly grounded - grounded is a subtle word that represents a way of experiencing the world.

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              Your understanding on affirmations is grossly inadequate dude...you can safely ignore that because your not at the stage to use them effectively - work on getting yourself grounded more first, I think that will bring some good balance into your thinking style and less emotionally reactive to what I write

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              Another thing you're not understanding - people actually aren't equal. Not even God who created us tells us people are equal - and if you study and understand it, you'll see there's wisdom there.

              There's something called the Law Of Dominance - that means there is hierarchy by default in all parts of the universe

              Good ideas are better than poor ones
              Stronger is better than weaker
              Alpha is better than beta
              The moon orbits the earth
              The earth orbits the sun
              The sun orbits the galaxy

              etc etc

              Yes, you have to see people, but different people are cut out for different things. Equal rights are used to reinforce different groups in society so they all work against each other - which makes the overall group weaker and subordinate to the powers in control - its exactly how colonialism was so effective - reinforce lots of different ideas, causing the whole mass of ideas and the people to become weaker and easier to control.

              Id also recommend you study mind control more - seems your buying into a lot of social frames and culturally programmed things without even realising

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              As for your advice, a lot of it is indeed kj - ive tried it and it didnt work. The thought processes your coming out with are based on underlying brain programs that you're unaware of...its those brain programs that you need to get at to get at "the good stuff" - not at the surface level of thoughts

              Second thing is that different people work in different ways - they have different programs operating. To say your advice is actionable by all people in the same way is kj - and to then say "oh look, your not listening to me" doesnt appreciate that simple point.

              Your self talk is really useful - it tells me where you are at - you don't believe in yourself or you wouldnt be saying this

              Self talk is based on someone's own self-conception

              Here's a good practical exercise to try that will help you out:

              Imagine everyone close to you - such as close friends and family or co-workers - having all the resources, desires, money and everything else they could ever need. Imagine them being happy, prosperous and successful in everything and that there's no limits.

              Then imagine that it increases even more.

              Also try some mirror exercises for self-love - seems your bringing yourself down by your thought processes and programming the wrong things in without realising

              Look in the mirror and say you love yourself and that everyone appreciates you and approves of you

              That will also stop you getting offended by text your reading on some online forum - it will help with the grounding and putting the right subconscious programs in. And it will also change your self-conception, so your self talk automatically changes based on the mirror reflection of whats actually inside you

              Again, this is practical, actionable stuff that will work quickly - I took your advice very closely and it didnt do anything. Seems you could do with taking in a different viewpoint instead of constantly bombarding your own - based on old brain programs that are no longer useful for you.

              Just a mish mash of words and "yay I believe in god" ^

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              • #22
                Originally posted by thecostofsuccess View Post
                Just a mish mash of words and "yay I believe in god" ^
                Also, there's a reason this was posted in OFF TOPIC - its not directly related to seduction - it was just a few things I thought should be in the air, but people are scared to talk about it

                Good, its cleared the air a little

                DavidK gave a level headed reply - dunno why you couldnt do the same

                Im not even interested in this topic that much, so yeh Ive deleted the OP lol lol - cant be assed getting in some debate....
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                Key lessons:
                - The brain is a bullshit feeder
                - People don't exist in the way you think they do
                - Early rising makes a world of difference

                My journals:

                Sexual game journal
                Fundamentals journal
                Club game approaching journal
                Brain programming journal

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                • #23
                  I think equality is the most pointless term to exist and equality can never be achieved by humans/laws/socialism.

                  Also, equality doesn't guarantee anything. Dogs and cats are not equal to humans, but they can literally live better lives than most humans. Taken care of, fed, medicine, etc.. Yeah they can't vote, yeah they don't get representation in government, but that doesn't stop them from having great lives.

                  At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is production. Effort -> Value
                  We treat animals with lots of love and like kings because they bring us a lot of value.

                  You want true equality? Stop acknowledging genders and race all together. Government by definition is ANTI equality, by defining classes and minorities you are already giving them power.

                  Nature is the natural equalizer. You either survive or you don't, nature does not give a damn if you're big, small, black, white, muslim, jewish, atheist. It treats all the same. If it's freezing outside, you will die if you do not have heat. If you do not work to get food, you will die. If you do not cut wood to burn, you will die. No special treatment of women or minorities.

                  So no, I don't believe in social equality. I believe in natural equality, aka no equality.

                  Morgan Freeman gets it.

                  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0p_pQ7PTYU

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by Qlue View Post
                    I think equality is the most pointless term to exist and equality can never be achieved by humans/laws/socialism.

                    Also, equality doesn't guarantee anything. Dogs and cats are not equal to humans, but they can literally live better lives than most humans. Taken care of, fed, medicine, etc.. Yeah they can't vote, yeah they don't get representation in government, but that doesn't stop them from having great lives.

                    At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is production. Effort -> Value
                    We treat animals with lots of love and like kings because they bring us a lot of value.

                    You want true equality? Stop acknowledging genders and race all together. Government by definition is ANTI equality, by defining classes and minorities you are already giving them power.

                    Nature is the natural equalizer. You either survive or you don't, nature does not give a damn if you're big, small, black, white, muslim, jewish, atheist. It treats all the same. If it's freezing outside, you will die if you do not have heat. If you do not work to get food, you will die. If you do not cut wood to burn, you will die. No special treatment of women or minorities.

                    So no, I don't believe in social equality. I believe in natural equality, aka no equality.
                    Exactly! 10 points to you sir :P

                    P.S Chad, forgot to answer your points - good points dude and yes I agree...seems people are getting worked up over nothing. I only want to post for relevant stuff but if it will satisfy other posters to keep community harmony by posting less, im all for it

                    The constant name calling from people like Cosy though isnt very effective..ive tried to be cordial at all times...he has kinda lost his cool though (as did skills), which tells me a lot about whats going on internally with these guys

                    Also, a lot of his advice imho is kj - i have tested it and it didnt work - so, I need to call it kj when it happens to help other posters.
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                    Key lessons:
                    - The brain is a bullshit feeder
                    - People don't exist in the way you think they do
                    - Early rising makes a world of difference

                    My journals:

                    Sexual game journal
                    Fundamentals journal
                    Club game approaching journal
                    Brain programming journal

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                      Cosy you seem to be making a lot of assumptions once again dude

                      Nowhere did I say im ungrateful to women, or unappreciate, or that I would say treat them like shit.....again...more assumptions that arent actually written there at all

                      Once again, id highly recommend you try TRE and also EFT to loosen you up a little - seems you cant even see your own subconscious blocks and give neutral based replies

                      Most of what you're writing here is highly reactive to your own thought processes - which is why Im calling it mental masturbation

                      You'll become reactive to thought processes when you aren't truly grounded - grounded is a subtle word that represents a way of experiencing the world.
                      Hey Impulse,

                      I also feel what cosy feels and as it looks like other posters too. It's not just an assumption: It's the subjective picture we build about you by reading your posts. I'm pretty shure that you know about the concept of self and public image. I dont know if you take it as an personal attack or not and I dont care, but I would take it as feedback. Because when you work with feedback you get aware of your blind spots.

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by Beckstar101 View Post
                        Hey Impulse,

                        I also feel what cosy feels and as it looks like other posters too. It's not just an assumption: It's the subjective picture we build about you by reading your posts. I'm pretty shure that you know about the concept of self and public image. I dont know if you take it as an personal attack or not and I dont care, but I would take it as feedback. Because when you work with feedback you get aware of your blind spots.
                        Alright, point taken..it seems im walking over people by the way im writing which is creating an emotional response in guys that aren't so internally strong. Emotions someone feels by the way text is written on a forum is a symptom of emotional fragility that the person themselves have

                        Bear in mind Im using a lot of different exercises like TRE, EFT, ADT, deep breathing etc etc on a weekly basis, some even on a daily basis, which makes me come across very bold and direct on here with a totally different, grounded basis.

                        Also I am a dominant person in real life, but not in a threatening or uncalibrated sort of way - I have a fun and very approachable sort of vibe

                        But yeh, I think I could do with posting less here, especially if it will upset posters who are more emotionally sensitive or who have no clue about the benefits or effects from these exercises
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                        Key lessons:
                        - The brain is a bullshit feeder
                        - People don't exist in the way you think they do
                        - Early rising makes a world of difference

                        My journals:

                        Sexual game journal
                        Fundamentals journal
                        Club game approaching journal
                        Brain programming journal

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                          Alright, point taken..it seems im walking over people by the way im writing which is creating an emotional response in guys that aren't so internally strong. Emotions someone feels by the way text is written on a forum is a symptom of emotional fragility that the person themselves have

                          Bear in mind Im using a lot of different exercises like TRE, EFT, ADT, deep breathing etc etc on a weekly basis, some even on a daily basis, which makes me come across very bold and direct on here with a totally different, grounded basis.

                          Also I am a dominant person in real life, but not in a threatening or uncalibrated sort of way - I have a fun and very approachable sort of vibe

                          But yeh, I think I could do with posting less here, especially if it will upset posters who are more emotionally sensitive or who have no clue about the benefits or effects from these exercises
                          I've been away for a while. What exactly is your current problem? Last I remember you were slaying left and right?
                          The Qlue, simple perspectives on life.

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by Qlue View Post
                            I've been away for a while. What exactly is your current problem? Last I remember you were slaying left and right?
                            There's no problem...just a few guys are getting emotionally worked up by some of the things I write...im pretty sure its because of the exercises im doing....making me come across a certain way that triggers peoples emotions through text, nothing more

                            But...I agree its better to post a little less here if it will work people up the wrong way

                            Im also sizing up to people who are talking kj and they got offended
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                            Key lessons:
                            - The brain is a bullshit feeder
                            - People don't exist in the way you think they do
                            - Early rising makes a world of difference

                            My journals:

                            Sexual game journal
                            Fundamentals journal
                            Club game approaching journal
                            Brain programming journal

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                              There's no problem...just a few guys are getting emotionally worked up by some of the things I write...im pretty sure its because of the exercises im doing....making me come across a certain way that triggers peoples emotions through text, nothing more

                              But...I agree its better to post a little less here if it will work people up the wrong way

                              Im also sizing up to people who are talking kj and they got offended
                              A few guys?

                              Mostly its me
                              Cuz you are being SO MUCH of a dick to everyone else, I'm letting you have it

                              Other guys are just relieved I'm not letting you off while you go off spouting nonsense

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by thecostofsuccess View Post
                                A few guys?

                                Mostly its me
                                Cuz you are being SO MUCH of a dick to everyone else, I'm letting you have it

                                Other guys are just relieved I'm not letting you off while you go off spouting nonsense
                                Lol, its all in your head dude!

                                Your too attached to what your reading in text.... that you're not able to see that you're reacting to your own thoughts

                                Which tells me there's something in your own subconscious programs that's being amplified

                                But oh well...say what you will....

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                                This is actually a brilliant lesson on how the imagination and mind works, but I think its way too deep for this type of forum

                                Maybe some other time
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                                Key lessons:
                                - The brain is a bullshit feeder
                                - People don't exist in the way you think they do
                                - Early rising makes a world of difference

                                My journals:

                                Sexual game journal
                                Fundamentals journal
                                Club game approaching journal
                                Brain programming journal

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