Sometimes, some girls say he following:
"I really liked that guy, but during that period of time there were some reasons that prevented me to seduce him (ie I did not want to). But after a few weeks, I decided to make a move."
I mean, how can it be possible that there is some kind of weird reason that prevents them to meet a guy?
Then I find out that they want to message him once a month, in an attempt to achieve an outcome I cannot understand what it is.