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  • #16
    Thanks for the input guys....


    So today I texted the ass-kicking girl. Since she was telling me how bad her neighborhood was, I went with the following text:

    Me: Hey [name] it's Sarge from okc. Did you get out of [area] alive?

    No response.

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    • #17
      Recent Fuck Up (just now)

      • Me: Hey [name], you're really naturally pretty - I can tell. Anyway, nice to meet you, I'm Sarge
      • Today - 5:45pm
        Her: Hey, thank you I'm [real name]. How's the week going so far?​
      • Me: I was going to ask you that [real name]! It's going good, how bout you?
      • Her: Good! Took my client for coffee and tutti frutti, played some video games and now I'm home relaxing!​
      • Me: Sounds like an awesome day! Which video game?


        Ok, so... should I have talked about her relaxing instead? Or what? Seems like I can't win with this stuff. I mean, I'm trying to be genuine here, but everything points back to being a PUA, for lack of a better term.

        When people tell me I can be genuine and still get girls, I will point to these kinds of instances time and time again. clearly I can't.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
        Recent Fuck Up (just now)

        • Me: Hey [name], you're really naturally pretty - I can tell. Anyway, nice to meet you, I'm Sarge
        • Today - 5:45pm
          Her: Hey, thank you I'm [real name]. How's the week going so far?​
        • Me: I was going to ask you that [real name]! It's going good, how bout you?
        • Her: Good! Took my client for coffee and tutti frutti, played some video games and now I'm home relaxing!​
        • Me: Sounds like an awesome day! Which video game?


          Ok, so... should I have talked about her relaxing instead? Or what? Seems like I can't win with this stuff. I mean, I'm trying to be genuine here, but everything points back to being a PUA, for lack of a better term.

          When people tell me I can be genuine and still get girls, I will point to these kinds of instances time and time again. clearly I can't.
        Hmmm... NOT a fuck up... check it out guys:


        • Her: Good! Took my client for coffee and tutti frutti, played some video games and now I'm home relaxing!​
        • Me: Sounds like an awesome day! Which video game?
        • Yesterday - 6:54pm
          Her: NHL and basketball. He's a sports fanatic and I'm not but I'm competetive so I really like to play haha. ​
        • Me: Lol, I'm not into sports either but I like NHL games too, just don't have any. But hey, I gotta go. No relaxing for me tonight. but how's your week looking?
        • Her: Oh are you working? What do you do? My week is looking quite routine and no plans yet!​
        • Yesterday - 10:15pm
          Me: You'll have to guess what I do... BUT I can tell you that I wasn't working. Routine week sounds promising, how about we meet up thursday for a drink?
        • Today - 9:11am
          Her: Well give me a clue then haha. You're so mysterious :P Possibly, for a non alcaholic beverage on my part​
        • Just now!
          Me: I'll give you a clue when we meet. And yeah, non alcohol is the way to go. What part of the city are you in?

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        • #19
          It would be cool if some pro online gamer can analyze the convos and give sarge feedback.

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          • #20
            Hey as long as Sarge can get meets he's winning. Oh and don't focus so much on getting laid keep that on backburner. You want exp getting girls to meet at first. I had to go through this as well. When you meet, feel out her BL.

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Tagz View Post
              Hey as long as Sarge can get meets he's winning. Oh and don't focus so much on getting laid keep that on backburner. You want exp getting girls to meet at first. I had to go through this as well. When you meet, feel out her BL.
              Solid advice Tagz. BL and BT are key for sure.

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              • #22
                Just got a shit-test (I think) from the girl online. WTF? Is she mental or am I just REALLY bad at this? check it out (same girl from previous post by me):

                • Her: OK, why is it a secret right now? Lol. I don't drink at all anymore [I live in area]. Do you have facebook or anything else I can creep?​
                • Her: Yoga teacher? Haha...porn actor?teacher? Electrician? Actorm​
                • Her: Actor *​
                • Her: I see you're mostly looking for sex right now hey? :/​
                • Today - 4:27pm
                  Me: Woah, calm down. I'm a drug dealer, ok? Satisfied? And no way, I used to live in [area]. Crazy coincidence. I see you have sex on the brain, can't say I blame you, but let's meet up before you jump me, sound fair?

                So, if someone experienced can PLEASE help me out here, that'd be great.

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                • #23
                  More convo with this girl:

                  • Her: Lol no I was looking at your questions and it was mostly sex you wanted according to them. I think I just broke my big toe

                  • Her: You don't look like a drug dealer lol​

                  • Just now!
                    Me: Ouch, you should get a cast. And those questions are so unfair, sex is an exciting topic. Thanks for the compliment, I try not to be obvious about it. But hey, let's go to [place and location] @ 8pm on thursday.

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                  • #24
                    Playful is sexy. Why not play a game with her right now? I know text is not your favorite but she's asking for it ("Well, give me a clue then. Haha.") If you're not comfortable posting your occupation here, PM me, I'll PM you back a playful way to text her back hints about your job. Great job making her guess. You took that from Bacchus' book I guess...

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Sase View Post
                      Playful is sexy. Why not play a game with her right now? I know text is not your favorite but she's asking for it ("Well, give me a clue then. Haha.") If you're not comfortable posting your occupation here, PM me, I'll PM you back a playful way to text her back hints about your job. Great job making her guess. You took that from Bacchus' book I guess...
                      Nah, i've done that forever actually.

                      But hey, it's about over, here was her last text:

                      Her: Haha that's true but you answered truthfully ! How about Sunday? ​


                      So I'm thinking she's jewing me down the totem pole, as well as shit testing me but I know nothing about all this.

                      What I'm interested in is learning how to handle the "sex" issue. Seems like being upfront about it triggers ASD but in my mind, why can't I be upfront with it? Her ASD is HER problem, and I don't like having to baby sit her through it.

                      I suppose I'm just resisting female psychology but it pisses me off, not gonna lie. At worst I felt deceptive by trying to avoid being direct. It sucks.

                      Now the playful sexy thing I don't get at all, not gonna lie.

                      At this point, i don't get any of it.

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                      • #26
                        You know, this forum saddens me. I could be getting super fun and entertaining lay reports for you guys, but instead, no one can help me where I need help, so I'm stuck floundering like a flounder.

                        New convo online, check it out:

                        • Me: Hey [name], you're really naturally pretty - I can tell. Anyway, nice to meet you, I'm Sarge
                        • Yesterday - 7:17pm
                          Her: aww thank you we have a 3% match btw lol
                        • Her: I forgot to add in my profile I don't like beards
                        • Yesterday - 11:14pm
                          Me: Beard hater eh? Fair enough.
                        • Yesterday - 11:39pm
                          Her: Lol yes I can't wait till this beard phase guys are into disappears lol​
                        • Today - 10:13am
                          Me: Till then you're stuck with us. What do you do by the way?
                        • Today - 11:06am
                          Her: I'm not stuck, I will shave it when you're sleeping lol
                        • Her: I work at the courthouse as a trial coordinator
                        • Today - 12:37pm
                          Me: Already thinking of me in bed, I like it. Trial coordinator sounds fancy, are you able to get me out of tickets and/or other mischief?
                        • Today - 12:53pm
                          Her: hahaha are you asking if you can use me? cause I'm not gonna be a FWB
                        • Me: Only if you can get me out of trouble. But hey, wanna grab a drink? I've got the day off and am bored
                        • Her: did u shave your beard? if not I'm bringing my razor lol
                        • Just now!
                          Me: Fair enough, I'll bring a towel. What area of the city are you in?
                        • Her: lol shut up ur not gonna remove it nevermind letting me remove it lol plus I don't wanna be ur FWB :P u haven't read my profile have u sw
                        • Me: I'm not a strong reader... So SW... do you know the Towa Sushi Lounge @ 8560 8A Ave SW
                        • Her: lol I was joking I'm not meeting u I'm at work. I read your answers and we don't have the same fundamental principles so it would not work. I'm sure you will have no problem finding someone that interests you


                          For the love of god help. ><

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                        • #27
                          Recenot convo online:

                          Her: I like how you asked if my messages really weren't responding...when I couldn't respond. ​
                          Yesterday - 10:17pm
                          Me: Thanks. I assumed you'd just look at my profile again if you wanted me to send you my number or something.
                          Yesterday - 10:49pm
                          Her: Aw I wish I'd have known the code before! Lol. ​
                          Today - 12:33am
                          Me:Oh well, snooze you lose.

                          How bout you give me your number tho, and I'll text you this week
                          Today - 7:17am
                          Her: ########## Maybe you can give me your name too ​
                          Just now!
                          Me: I'm Sarge, who are you?

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by Impulse View Post
                            sarge, you need to be careful with your questions

                            saying "Im sarge, who are you?" is not how you ask someone their name - use some common sense here dude
                            And you said my conversation skills were fine!

                            So... how should I ask for someone's name?
                            __________________________________________
                            So anyways I got her name, texted her, and now no response. Check it out:

                            https://s19.postimg.org/ce2yl8pvn/Sc...4_17_00_50.png

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                            • #29
                              Recent Convo that lead to a Scheduled Date:

                              Yesterday - 6:49pm
                              Me: Hey [name], you're really naturally pretty - I can tell. Anyway, nice to meet you, I'm Sarge

                              Yesterday - 7:12pm
                              Her: Hahaha ​
                              Her: I'm [Real name] ​

                              Me: N2MU, how is your week going?

                              Her: Can't complain, shaved my eyebrows, took a private jet to Dubai and back. ​

                              Yesterday - 7:28pm
                              Her: Not funny huh​

                              Me: very funny. why would you ever leave dubai?

                              Her: I watched docs all week long, you have eyes for talent my friend ??​
                              Her: Tell me your week was full of excitement?!​

                              Me: lol docs eh. sounds exciting
                              Me: my week has been busy

                              Yesterday - 8:06pm
                              Her: Busy is good, otherwise you'd be stuck watching lame docs.. trying to figure out why you don't have millions of dollars to dig in dirt yourself. ​

                              Yesterday - 8:49pm
                              Me: Lol I guess. Have you really been to Dubai?

                              Her: Don't worry, I have you you all figured out - I can tell. ​
                              Her: Lol
                              Her: No that was a bad joke, I never shaved my eyebrows or went to Dubai, just on a roll with the bad jokes tonight! ​

                              Yesterday - 9:39pm
                              Me: Lol, good for you. So, how about your number [Real name]? I'll text you and we can go for a drink sometime.

                              Her: Fair enough, I'm not this funny in real life though!
                              ###-###-#### ;]​

                              So that was the online convo.

                              I texted her with a place and time and she said "sounds like a plan"

                              However, now she texts me saying she's heard "horror stories" about the place I suggested so "we'll have to go somewhere else".

                              I'm thinking shit test. I'm also thinking I should ignore the text and on the day of our date just text her saying "hey, we still on for tonight?"

                              What do you guys say?

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                              • #30
                                Sarge, my only advice is to you is: simplify

                                You're way over complicating things. Also go for meet ups a bit sooner rather dragging everything out along.

                                When you over-complicate everything you end up giving them reasons NOT to meet you. I would tell you to focus on screening out time wasters, but you're self-sabotaging so much, that you couldn't differentiate between time wasters or women who were interested but you self-sabotaged.

                                So stick to keeping things clean and simple. You don't have to be boring, but err on the side of safety than on the side of too risky.
                                The Qlue, simple perspectives on life.

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