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[SargeMaximus]

This latest one has a story behind it.

I got this girls' number and we never went out because she had excuses so I ghosted her.

Then I messaged her on a different site recently (don't know when) and I didn't know it was her.

Me:

I read your profile and it would never work between us. We’d have too much fun together! I’m Sarge

Her:

I feel like you sent me this exact same message on another site *bewildered emoji* makes me wonder how many others got the same one *monocle emoji*

Me: Millions prolly

Her: *thumbs down emoji*

Me: *thumbs up emoji*

[SargeMaximus]

What up peeps? So before you all tell me to stop overthinking things, please check that reaction at the door and instead answer the questions or don't respond at all. Thanks!

Back Story: This is the 18 year old cutie I got a number from online. Things fizzled out over text but today she pinged me:

Her: Hi [my first thoughts were "ok, how to respond in a way that doesn't make it look like I've been waiting for her to ping me (which I haven't, I even deleted her contact info), but at the same time keeps the door open and moves things swiftly to a meet? Still no idea how to do that once they re-engage after time apart so please let me know how you're supposed to do this. Like, if my FWB contacts me someday out of nowhere after we've been ghosting for so long, what should I do? Likewise, when girls from online or numbers I had re-ping me, what should I do?]

Me: Hey

Her: It's been a while lol
Her: R u not interested anymore ?

Me: Coffee or ice cream? [this is from my PUA coach]

Her: lol!
Her: Coffee haha

Me: You're in downtown right? [also from PUA coach]

Her: [area]
Her: Nah [area]
Her: Do you know that area ?

Me: [area], you know the Starbucks in the [place] in [place]?

Her: Oh yeah ik it

Me: Cool let's meet there

Her: Lol so soon, I barely kno you [me thinking "shit, I went too fast". But really, how do you speedily and EFFICIENTLY get to a meet without seeming too eager?? And how do you avoid lengthy text convos??]

Me: That's the point of meeting somewhere public so I can see if you're normal

Her: Ok I get it
Her: What do you do ? jw [me thinking "shit, she's putting me on provider already, wtf?" So yeah, how did that happen and what should I do to avoid it??]

Me: I'm an ass model

Her: Ew
Her: What is tht

Me: Tell you what, I'll be in [area] in about a half hour [this was true] if you want to meet then just text me if not that's OK

Her: Lol I can't im in school

Me: Some other time then, what's your schedule like?

Her: Im in school mostly during the week but I'm free weekends
Her: Fridays I get half days [Me thinking "perfect, I don't work Fridays]

Me: So we could do tomorrow [Friday] 3ish

Her: Actually I can't this Friday I doing some stuff

Me: No worries [at this point I'm wondering HOW do you make it like it's no big deal WITHOUT making it seem like you're just waiting for them to hit you up. Honestly, this feels like I'm just playing to the beat of HER drum but a lot of PUA's say that you should shrug it off and not be the guy that gets mad about this stuff but I honestly think that only makes it seem like you're waiting for her like a good little boy. So yeah, reconcile that one for me]

Her: Maybe some other time ???

Me: For sure [again, didn't want to blow up and seem triggered, but I honestly think this makes me look desperate so again, how do you guys reconcile this kind of thing and what would you do???]

Her: *smile and hug emojis*

[SargeMaximus]

Ok so this was on tinder a few minutes ago. This is a mixture of Skills' stuff that worked and some stuff I'm field testing from my PUA coach.

Me: You look like trouble

Her: Born and bred

Me: Good. You know I read your profile and it would never work between us. We'd have too much fun together.

Her: I mean yeah, I'm like 98% fun
Her: So this is just too much too fast I think. I can only handle so much fun


Me: Yeah me too

Her: Whomp whomp

Me: You humping the pillow?

Her: I am not hahaha

Me: Btw, coffee or ice cream?

Her: Coffee

Me: You're downtown right?

Her: I'm not

Me: I'm ne myself

Her: I'm in [neoighborhood]

Me: That's close to me

Her: Cooooool

Me: Yeah, what you up to?

[SargeMaximus]

Tired of following a structure that leads nowhere so decided to wing it tonight. Nothing working except got these 2 convos:



Me:
Hmm you look like trouble

Her:
Oh, really? How so?

Me:
Squinty eyes [She actually has wide eyes in her pic lol]

Her:
What?! I don’t have squinty eyes!

Me:
Yeah you can always tell by the eyes

Her:
Haha. Well then, never had a guy say I have squinty eyes to me before. That’s a new conversation starter

Me:
Enjoying your evening?

Her:
Yeah, It’s going pretty good. How about you?

Me:
Yeah chillin

Her:
Nice.

Me:
Yeah. So what’s your story?

Her:
My story? Lol

Me:
Yeah, besides your squinting eyes

Her:
Oh. My. God. Stop making fun of my eyes ! And idk, just recently got out of a long term relationship, moved out, and am currently trying to get back out there haha

Me:
Nice. Well it could be worse, you could have wide eyes. But hey, you got Netflix?

Her:
Yeah, I’ve got netflix lol. Why?

Me:
We should chill

Her:
I’m busy for the weekend and a bit into next week but sure

Me:
K shoot me a text whenever ###-###-#### say it’s squinty girl from pof





Girl # 2: (She messaged me first thios afternoon)


Her:
Hey there

Me:
Pics?

Her:
Unlock superpowers

Me:
Superpowers?

Her:
The conversation boosters. We have to send messages back and forth

Me:
I did not know that

Me:
How long we have to go back and forth before superpowers are unlocked?

Her: *sends safe for work pic*

Me:
Not bad

Her:
Thanks

Me:
So what’s your story?

Her:
What do you mean? Like why I’m on here?

Me:
Yeah

Her:
Well I’m recently divorced. Just started school again. And looking to connect with new people

Me:
Cool.

Her:
Yea! It’s alright. What about you?

Me:
Well I’m hoping to find a cool girl to chill, laugh, and go on adventures with

Her:
I love adventures!

Me:
Yeah? And how open minded are you?

Her:
Extremely. Except when it comes to bodily secretions.

Me:
Agreed. So what you up to today?

Her:
Oh I’m just working. Then have to go shopping for an interview tomorrow

Me:
Nice. Well I’m enjoying talking to you but I don’t want to keep you from your work. Perhaps we can get together when you’re free

Her:
Well my work is really laid back and I’m done all my paperwork!

Me:
You work from home?

Her:
I work in an office

Me:
Cool cool. What are you wearing?

Her:
A sweater, a cute dress shirt and jeans

Me:
Pics?

Her:
Well I’m at my desk and we don’t have body mirrors

Me:
Unfortunate.

Her:
I know.

Me:
I can see why you’re looking for another job

Her:
Oh it’s just for a higher position. I’m interviewing with the CEO and president of the company.

Me:
Nice

Her:
Yea.

Me:
Hopefully it comes with a body mirror and private office

Her:
I have a private office boo

Me:
But no mirror?

Her:
No why would I need it at work

Me:
So you can send me pics of course

Her:
Hahah oh

[SargeMaximus]

Match on Tinder (Before Skills tells me "Yiou gotta follow a structure!" Look at all the times I used the structure and it went nowhere):

Me: You look like trouble

Her: Hahahahahha I can be at times

Me: That's good. You know I read your profile and it would never work between us. We'd have too much fun together

Her: Hahahahaha well shit should we just end it there or indulge

Me: I'm game for indulging if you are

Her: I love to indulge

Me: Sweet. Where you at?

Her: I'm sick at home right now

Me: Fun

Her: Not even a little

Me: Well when you get better we should hang. Text me its [name] from tinder: ###-###-####

she texted me right away:

Her: it’s [name] from tinder

me: hey [name]
me: not sick anymore?

her: Hahahahaha I am

me: unfortunate

[Skills360]

I am working on a lay report on a dude on a wheelchair that fucked one of my pivots... Waiting for her to write me the story... So all of you that make excuses can see for yourself...

[SargeMaximus]

Look forward to reading it. I’m not making excuses. I’ve tried your way several times but nothing.

[Skills360]

you are not trying my way but free styling...

[SargeMaximus]

Yes I’m free styling now because all the times I used your way it never work d out and I got tired of getting flakes. You remember all those ones you said you had tears cause I finally got it? Yeah those. Nothing happened, they went cold

[Velasco]

Me:
Agreed. So what you up to today?

Her:
Oh I’m just working. Then have to go shopping for an interview tomorrow

Me:
Nice. Well I’m enjoying talking to you but I don’t want to keep you from your work. Perhaps we can get together when you’re free

Her:
Well my work is really laid back and I’m done all my paperwork!

with that last statement she was telling you, she was free to bang that night. So I would have gone shopping with her for the clothes ("well hey luckily for you I just so happen to be an job interview fashion expert. I think we should go shopping together for that outfit. and then maybe get something to eat after (I don't want to say "drinks" here, because that implies she's gonna be out late/hungover, which will probably prompt "but I have to get up early")...that is...only if you feeling adventurous enough? (challenging her to prove her earlier statement, "I love adventures!" basically the technique Bacchus talked about towards the end of his post here:

https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/ge...744#post327744


"figure out what she wants to be seen as, then present an opportunity for her. This opportunity should no doubt, also serve your purposes, and then you simply challenge her to do it".


so, shopping -> drinks -> then head to her place.

[SargeMaximus]

Fascinating. Thanks for the insight.