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  • Doesn't always work:
    Me:
    Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

    Her:
    Hi

    Me:
    Ohhhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
    This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!


    Her:
    lol

    Me:
    But tell me something...what brought you here to the app?
    Did you have any good experiences so far?

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    • POB where the fuck are you man?!

      This kind of shit is happening a LOT, see below:


      Me:
      Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

      Her:
      Haha I usually am

      Me:
      Ohhhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
      This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!


      Then no reply!

      WTF? Is she DTF but this script is more relationship-driven? (that's how it seems to me)

      Got any scripts for DTF/ONS?

      Thanks man!

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      • Had one tonight. Girl seemed DTF so I pushed things. She ended up ghosting on me even after saying she wanted to meet. Here's what I remember from the convo:

        Me: Hey trouble

        Her: Hi

        Me: How's your night going?

        Her: Good you?

        Me: Good. Just chillin. Sexy costume btw

        Her: Thanks Halloween is fun

        Me: True dat. Too bad it's so far away.

        Me: I could use a little fun

        Her: It's not too far, only a couple weeks.

        Her: Yeah, we could all use more fun

        Me: Wanna meet up?

        Her: Yeah we could do that

        Me: Your place?

        Her: Yeah

        Me: Address?

        *no reply, so I messaged her later*

        Me: You still there?

        Her: Yeah, I'm still here

        Me: Is now a good time?

        Her: Yeah

        Me: Ok what's the address then?

        Then she blocked me. Wtf? Why didn't she just block me from the beginning??

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        • Also, most girls answer less than an 8 out of 10 for the happiness question. Should I really not reply to them? Seems like Iím cutting a lot loose

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          • Ok, a few more for tonight. Mostly I'd say the script is decent but lacking. Also, some women be crazy like the second girl I'm posting here:

            Girl 1 (The "I am in trouble/sick/etc shit-test":


            Me:
            Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

            Her:
            Oh yeah, why is that

            Me:
            Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
            This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

            Her:
            Hahaha

            Her:
            Well I am quite loveable! Just saying

            Me:
            Thatís true! You must be dangerous!!!
            Let me take note here: be careful with Renee

            Her:
            Yes be very careful

            Me:
            Gotta take it easy with you
            But tell me something... what brought you to pof?
            Did you have any good experiences so far?

            Her:
            I havenít had much luck on here to be honest. What about you

            Me:
            Oh Iím sorry to hear that.
            But Iím sure someone cool will come your way, like maybe a bearded bad boy.
            Me Iíve had some fun but work keeps me pretty busy

            Her:
            What do you do for work? If you donít mind me asking

            Me:
            Iím an ass model

            Her:
            I could definitely see that

            Me:
            Could you?
            You know you look like a very positive woman... seems like you have an awesome energy!
            I really dig people like that, who can enjoy great things and share a good laugh!
            Like, on a 1 to 10 scale, how happy are you with your life now?

            Her:
            Iím at a 6, but thatís because I had a mini stroke and lost my chances of becoming a cop.
            I did however get back into cook which Iím great at

            Me:
            Oh shit, are you serious? Should you be dating after such a health problem? I mean, if things heat up I donít want to put you in danger



            Girl 2 (psycho):


            Me:
            Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

            Her:
            Someone here is going to get the Lorena Bobbitt treatment if he doesn't fuck off immediately.

            Me:
            Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!
            This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

            Her:
            Yeah... you can take your thirst elsewhere.

            Me:
            Heh
            But tell me something... what brought you here to pof?
            Did you have any good experiences so far?


            POB Please advise!

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            • It just seems like the girls are responding weird, or is it just me? I mean, compared to your examples POB, these girls seem different. Like they're not interested or not very responsive. I honestly think a few of them have been DTF and didn;'t want to keep chatting but just wanted me to make sex happen somehow. This girl below, I'm not sure which category she's in.


              Me:
              Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

              Her:
              Haha don't know what you're talking about.

              Me:
              Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
              This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

              Her:
              I don't know how to not be cute!

              Me:
              Haha
              But tell me something... what brought you here to pof?
              Did you have any good experiences so far?

              Her:
              Figured it was time to start dating again.

              Her:
              So far, so good

              Me:
              Oh thatís great!

              Her:
              And how about yourself?

              Me:
              So I came here looking for the same thing as everybody else ... to meet new people that are single as myself .
              Of course Iím hoping to find someone special, wonít be sad at all if that happens!

              Her:
              Haha that's fair.

              Me:
              You seem like a very positive woman... seems like you have an awesome energy!
              I really dig people like that who can enjoy great things and share a good laugh!
              Like, on a 1 to 10 scale, how happy are you with your life now?

              Her:
              Haha well my life was recently completely torn apart and shredded, and I'm basically starting over, so maybe a 5?
              But I still like to think I'm pretty positive

              Me:
              Fair enough. Life can throw curve balls for sure.
              So I gotta ask you Karissa, what traits make you an awesome person?
              Like something that you have and everybody compliments and takes notice

              Her:
              I'm charismatic, kind hearted, and genuine.

              Me:
              Oh, itís so cool that you are charismatic like me kind hearted and genuine is important too.
              Wow Karissa, gotta say, I can really feel this energy between us... so strange because weíve never been together!
              Anyway you seem like an interesting woman... I think we could meet sometime.
              Simple stuff, on a cozy place, so we can sit, drink drink something and continue this cool conversation .
              How is your schedule this week?
              Btw Iím usually free Wednesday and Thursday

              Her:
              I might be free Thursday. I'll have to check and get back to you on that though.

              Me:
              Fair enough. What area of the city are you in?

              Her:
              The SW.

              Me:
              Ok cool. I'm NE.
              Well give me your number and we'll touch base later in the week


              She never got back to me

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              • More proof I'm giving out a "sex" vibe:



                Me:
                Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble
                Her:
                Not interested
                Me:
                Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
                This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!


                Her:
                I said not interested, please don't message me again

                So I blocked her.


                In my experience over the last week, seems this is good for getting girls who want a relationship, but it doesn't get girls who were DTF and it doesn't change yellows/reds to greens. Need more powerful script.

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                • Another one.

                  I know you guys don't want me freestyling, but how am I supposed to answer replies that require me to deviate from the script?


                  Me:
                  Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

                  Her:
                  Haha, how do?

                  Me:
                  Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
                  This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!


                  [No reply]

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                  • Holy shit Sarge, slow down!

                    I have a little thing called life you know, have to live it sometimes.

                    My examples are all from Tinder. I did a quick blitz for 30 days that got me 5 lays and a ton of prospects that I'm working now.
                    As I've said many times, I'm trying to focus more on live game, specially day game, so It's been a long time since I've used POF.

                    Maybe you'll have to adjust some stuff to suit it better
                    (skills is a POF guy if I'm not mistaken)

                    personal blog: https://realpob.wordpress.com/

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                    • SargeMaximus

                      SargeMaximus

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                      Haha, I know you got a life, I’m not expecting you to drop everything and come every time I need help, but it’s more for when you did see it you could see what my sticking points are.

                  • Look below:

                    Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
                    It just seems like the girls are responding weird, or is it just me? I mean, compared to your examples POB, these girls seem different. Like they're not interested or not very responsive. I honestly think a few of them have been DTF and didn;'t want to keep chatting but just wanted me to make sex happen somehow. This girl below, I'm not sure which category she's in.


                    Me:
                    Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

                    Her:
                    Haha don't know what you're talking about.

                    Me:
                    Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
                    This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

                    Her:
                    I don't know how to not be cute!

                    Me:
                    Haha
                    But tell me something... what brought you here to pof?
                    Did you have any good experiences so far?

                    Her:
                    Figured it was time to start dating again.

                    Her:
                    So far, so good

                    Me:
                    Oh thatís great!

                    Her:
                    And how about yourself?

                    Me:
                    So I came here looking for the same thing as everybody else ... to meet new people that are single as myself .
                    Of course Iím hoping to find someone special, wonít be sad at all if that happens!

                    Her:
                    Haha that's fair.

                    Me:
                    You seem like a very positive woman... seems like you have an awesome energy!
                    I really dig people like that who can enjoy great things and share a good laugh!
                    Like, on a 1 to 10 scale, how happy are you with your life now?

                    Her:
                    Haha well my life was recently completely torn apart and shredded, and I'm basically starting over, so maybe a 5?
                    But I still like to think I'm pretty positive

                    Me:
                    Fair enough. Life can throw curve balls for sure.

                    But what happened to you, if you don't mind me asking?
                    (probe a bit, let her talk about her life...usually it's not that serious, maybe she broke up with her BF...if it is something serious, just politely bail...you're not her psychologist)


                    Her: Blablabla

                    You: Oh, but that's so bad....how are you feeling about that situation?

                    Her: Blablabla


                    Oh, but things are gonna get better
                    So I gotta ask you Karissa, what traits make you an awesome person?
                    Like something that you have and everybody compliments and takes notice

                    Her:
                    I'm charismatic, kind hearted, and genuine.

                    Me:
                    Oh, itís so cool that you are charismatic like me kind hearted and genuine is important too.
                    (banter a bit here...she gave you an one liner, means she was busy or no that interested at that point)
                    Say something like:
                    I'm honest and driven, blablabla... (then talk a bit about yourself....see how I use sense of humor on that part, check my examples)

                    Her: oh, tha's great, blablabla

                    Wow Karissa, gotta say, I can really feel this energy between us... so strange because weíve never been together!
                    Anyway you seem like an interesting woman... I think we could meet sometime.
                    Simple stuff, on a cozy place, so we can sit, drink drink something and continue this cool conversation .
                    How is your schedule this week?
                    Btw Iím usually free Wednesday and Thursday

                    Her:
                    I might be free Thursday. I'll have to check and get back to you on that though.

                    Me:
                    Fair enough. What area of the city are you in?

                    Her:
                    The SW.

                    Me:
                    Ok cool. I'm NE.
                    Well give me your number and we'll touch base later in the week (don't ask, make an offer)
                    Look, it's was nice talking to you, but unfortunately I really have to go now.
                    Maybe we could exchange numbers, it's gonna be easier to talk

                    She never got back to me

                    personal blog: https://realpob.wordpress.com/

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                    • Plus some caveats:

                      1) women ghost me all the time (20% at least, sometimes even more)
                      That's ok on online

                      2) I never ever wait for a reply more than 5 days
                      If she did not answer in 5 days, forget about her and move on
                      (don't block or delete, just archive her msgs)

                      3) never ask for her number if she's not givin' you strong compliance!
                      Instead make an offer like on my last post.

                      4) I gave you a blueprint, of course you can adjust stuff to suit your style, as long as you don't break the overall structure
                      personal blog: https://realpob.wordpress.com/

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                      • SargeMaximus

                        SargeMaximus

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                        Fair enough. It just seems like a ton of girls are getting left behind who had initial interest.

                      • POB

                        POB

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                        That's ok too, and expected.
                        Just reengage later, no biggie

                      • SargeMaximus

                        SargeMaximus

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                        Ok cool. And I reengage with a simple hey or do I just keep following the script where I left off?

                    • See below:

                      Originally posted by SargeMaximus View Post
                      Ok, a few more for tonight. Mostly I'd say the script is decent but lacking. Also, some women be crazy like the second girl I'm posting here:

                      Girl 1 (The "I am in trouble/sick/etc shit-test":


                      Me:
                      Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

                      Her:
                      Oh yeah, why is that

                      Me:
                      Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!!!
                      This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

                      Her:
                      Hahaha

                      Her:
                      Well I am quite loveable! Just saying

                      Me:
                      Thatís true! You must be dangerous!!!
                      Let me take note here: be careful with Renee

                      Her:
                      Yes be very careful

                      Me:
                      Gotta take it easy with you
                      But tell me something... what brought you to pof?
                      Did you have any good experiences so far?

                      Her:
                      I havenít had much luck on here to be honest. What about you

                      Me:
                      Oh Iím sorry to hear that.
                      But Iím sure someone cool will come your way, like maybe a bearded bad boy.
                      Me Iíve had some fun but work keeps me pretty busy

                      Her:
                      What do you do for work? If you donít mind me asking

                      Me:
                      Iím an ass model

                      Her:
                      I could definitely see that

                      Me:
                      Could you?
                      You know you look like a very positive woman... seems like you have an awesome energy!
                      I really dig people like that, who can enjoy great things and share a good laugh!
                      Like, on a 1 to 10 scale, how happy are you with your life now?

                      Her:
                      Iím at a 6, but thatís because I had a mini stroke and lost my chances of becoming a cop.
                      I did however get back into cook which Iím great at

                      Me:
                      Oh shit, are you serious? Should you be dating after such a health problem? I mean, if things heat up I donít want to put you in danger
                      (why did you say that??? are you a brain doctor? You were doing just fine up to that point)

                      Oh shit, are you serious? Really?
                      But tell me what happened, are you ok now?
                      (show some empathy please)

                      and proceed the convo like i's no big deal


                      Girl 2 (psycho):


                      Me:
                      Mmmmm, someone here is gonna be trouble

                      Her:
                      Someone here is going to get the Lorena Bobbitt treatment if he doesn't fuck off immediately.

                      (cue for you to bail on the psycho, but you missed it badly!)

                      Me:
                      Ohhh, stop being sooo cute!
                      This way weíre gonna fall in love too fast... not fair!

                      Her:
                      Yeah... you can take your thirst elsewhere.

                      Me:
                      Heh
                      But tell me something... what brought you here to pof?
                      Did you have any good experiences so far?
                      personal blog: https://realpob.wordpress.com/

                      Comment


                      • Still not getting many dates with this. I'd say less than 1/50 agree to a date. So far tho I haven't been on ANY dates. Any theories why it's so low? I mean, I'm following the script EXACTLY, no freestyling so... wtf?
                        Last edited by SargeMaximus; 10-16-2018, 06:09 AM.

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                        • Yeah fuck this. Iím definitely getting put into provider category or maybe attention whore behaviour but after prolly more than 30 convos, and prolly more than a hundred opens these last few days, NOT A SINGLE FUCKING DATE!!!!
                          what the absolute fuck?

                          Someone explain and get me a different script to test.

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                          • SargeMaximus

                            SargeMaximus

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                            I never said you suck, I’m just frustrated. Sorry if it came off that way but it’s not directed at you. Thanks for the help.

                          • POB

                            POB

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                            Please read this book:
                            https://www.yourcoach.be/blog/wp-con...nce-people.pdf

                            It's a classic and is gonna help you a lot

                          • SargeMaximus

                            SargeMaximus

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                            Ok, I will. Skills mentioned it too.

                            Again, sorry if it came off as me bashing you but it wasn’t. I know it’s not your fault things aren’t working for me.

                        • No matter what script, what method, etc... or any mentor, your basic problem is that you are expecting for lines/scripts etc... to do the seduction and that does not work cause the self will always comes through, unfortunately sarge, you are not a very likable guy, you always comes across as you have "an agenda" you can not connect with people and the lines and scripts is not the problem.

                          and believe it or not the right guy for you may be cosy (cost of success).... Find out if he is willing to work with you on a coaching basis... Just my 2 cents..


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                          • SargeMaximus

                            SargeMaximus

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                            Well that’s depressing. What’s the point then? I’d be willing to work with cozy if I could understand the guy.
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