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  • #16
    Originally posted by PeaceLovinSoul View Post
    Excellent response and I DEFINITELY agree with this.....Just keepa' going baby, because there is always Oral to get her juices flowing
    uh, your oral juices usually aint as good as vaginal juices

    just saying.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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    • #17
      reduce masterbuating to porn (espically the hard core stuff) and take control of the situation out of the gate.
      Have viagra or something like it on hand just in case.

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      • #18
        I used to masturbate a lot. Once a day. Now like twice a week?

        But I've never had ED problems. Only when I'm shit faced drunk.

        I've gone for months without working out. But when I do, it's a heavy lifting routine. Before that, when I was actually athletic, full fight training regiment including swimming, running, lifting, etc.

        I eat a lot of garlic in my diet.

        Tbh I think it's genetics for me. Alwaysbhad adrenaline driven hobbies. Motorcycles, martial arts.. Women always comment on how hard my pecker is too. I also look very young for my age.

        It's only last few years I had regular sex. Nowadays it's two or three times with different girls on rotation. I have not noticed much of a difference in my erection quality throughout the years. I guess it's always been 100% for me.

        Sorry not much help. Work out, sleep well, garlic and meat.
        "A human life gains luster and strength only when it is polished and tempered."

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        • #19
          @Kit Uhh...not MY oral juices but get her juices flowing from giving HER head.

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          • #20
            I don't think I have Zinc deficit, never have any problem with my hair or my cock. However, a few days ago I casually pick up a box of cashews as a snack, like having 50g/day. Oh boy, suddenly my cock seems to find his own spinach. On Sunday, I had sex with my OLTR (she's hot af but not any new puss, mind you) and it couldn't get down after ejaculation. Also, I got woke up in the middle of last night because it felt so hard down there...

            I will keep eating those wonderful cashews to see if it lasts, or maybe just a mental placebo, we'll see

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Paw View Post
              - How often do you masturbate?

              - How fit are you?

              - How often do you workout?'

              - And maybe most important question, how often do you have sex? (with same or new girl)
              Only ever couldn't get it up 2 or 3 times (that I remember), and it was thanks to excessive alcohol intake + condom.

              - Masturbate once or twice any day where I don't have sex. I'd say I have roughly 10-12 orgasms a week, pretty consistently.

              - I'm in OK shape. I have a fast metabolism, so I'm pretty skinny, with some decent muscle tone. Definitely not muscular though.

              - I don't really work out these days. But I power-walk pretty much everywhere, and avoid escalators and elevators wherever possible, anything under ten floors, I take the stairs. In the past I have exercised more consistently (weight lifting or fencing) but I did not notice a different, erection wise.

              - It has varied a LOT over the years. For the last half a year, about 3-5 times a week, monogamously. Before them, it was pretty erratic. As in, maybe 6 times on a weekend and nothing during the week, or sex sessions with 2 or 3 orgasms about 2 or 3 times a week. And then random dry spells lasting anywhere from a few weeks to a few months.

              Hope that helps.

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              • #22
                I've wondered about this. Lately I've been having trouble getting hard on demand. Girl I'm seeing kinda bitched at me cuz she used to guys being ready to roll. A bj is enough for me but idk if it's a mental thing for me or too much porn or what I eat.. maybe all 3. I'm leaning towards getting "aid" but if I do that then I'd never have confidence in myself to perform. Ugh what to do. Also, any of you guys have side effects from things like cialis or anything else?

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                • #23
                  Had also problems this weekend. On Saturday I had no orgasmn and on sunday as follow up I had a tired d. Stopping masturbating to porn for the moment.

                  + I ordered some bigger condoms. I did some research and found out that condoms which are too small in scope can be source of ED. On saturday the condom was defenitive too tight. I also read that bigger condoms scope wise giving a better feeling and making you cum faster. That's good because I feel not so much when fucking and having hard time getting orgasmn.



                  Any can tell me how I reach point 5 of the list?


                  Originally posted by SoFasttt View Post
                  I had a few months of ED after broke up with my long-time girlfriend. Nowadays I fuck at least 3 times a week, 2 hours average per session (stay rock hard all the time) and can do 2+ back to back easily assuming I still find the girl attractive after first fuck.

                  These 5 things helped me immensely:

                  1. No masturbate
                  2. Work-out every day. You don't really need weight training but you should if you can, it boosts your T-level a whole lot. Due to some reasons I can only do BW Training at the moment but it works great too.
                  3. Kegel every day (easier with porn if you like to, that watching-porn-give-you-ED is a bad myth, just don't touch your peepee)
                  4. Always take control of the situation/sex session. At least you have to know/think that she's your little bitch and will do whatever you want and order her to)
                  5. Live as stress-free as possible. I can still get hard on a shitty day if horny enough, but it surely helps a ton.

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                  • #24
                    Adaptogenics help make your sex drive more even keel: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adaptogen

                    If you're in the premature direction, they'll bring you back a little. If you're in the "can't get it up" direction, they give you a boost. . because they nourish your endocrine and regulatory systems which regulate your sex hormones, NOT your sex organs themselves.

                    Its not a "pop one and be good tonight" type thing, but over time they'll get you back up to normal and maximized.

                    My favorite is ashwaghanda, which is a bit of a relaxer.

                    Maca is more of a stimulant, black maca being a strong stimulant. I'll take ashwaghanda regularly and maca on days where I need it. But my baseline is higher energy, if you're lower energy perhaps vice versa? Field test it. (I did note that when I took black maca regularly I'd get angrier and more aggressive, in a way I didn't like. Ash does the opposite to me, with the same type of sex drive effect.)

                    Ginseng is well know, also more a stimulant.

                    There are others, google around, but these are the big three IMO.

                    Again, these are not quick fixes, but over time will get your hormonal system in tip top shape which makes sexual performance go up.

                    I'm 38, mid-sex drive, and after getting my health up to tip top (i also eat well and exercise), if I don't bust a nut at least 4-5 times a week I'm not functioning right in other aspects of life, too horny and distracted. I can't imagine going 7 days no fap, I'd be a maniac. In my 20s I could go 7 days, I'd regularly wait all week to be all juiced up for the weekend, back when I'd yo-yo weight and eat taco bell. I don't have to do that now, 10+ years later, with health maximized, no chance. I'll skip 1-2 days a week, and make sure to ejaculate all the other days.

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                    • #25
                      pureevil I bought some ashwaghanda today at lunch from a nutrition store downtown. Will try to give some honest feedback in the next few weeks to a month.

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                      • #26
                        Nice, I think you'll dig it. It benefits so many things, it strengthens your body at a cellular level so affects damn near everything.

                        This is a collection of the scientific studies showing the benefits. Obviously you want to be skeptical of stuff but this is overwhelming:

                        https://selfhacked.com/blog/59-prove...ha-references/

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by Paw View Post
                          I'm curious and have some questions for you, to see if I can see a pattern. (of course assuming you don't take any PE):
                          Here are my answers:

                          - How often do you masturbate?
                          Once or twice a week, usually on Sundays

                          - How fit are you?
                          Used to be a bit overweight - 86 kilograms, measuring 1.78. That is a very bad BMI. Lost a lot of weight now, down to 68 kg. Intermident fasting all the way.

                          - How often do you workout?'
                          Never - but I should. will start soon.

                          - And maybe most important question, how often do you have sex? (with same or new girl)
                          New girl? 1-2 a week
                          Same girls: approx once a week - not much of a fuckbuddy guy.

                          A lot of people are talking here about this topic, getting tips etc. but it's also good perspective to see from you who like never had that problem and see if there are somethings in common that you do or DON'T do to stay that way.
                          I have had a period of ED, which will be covered in my second response to this thread.

                          -Teevster

                          Teevster (TVA_Oslo) AKA. Alek Rolstad

                          Projects 2017:

                          - Still Rocking
                          - Flipping Lesbians (have sex with lesbians)
                          - 10 year in PU anniversary!

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                          • #28
                            I have had a period with ED and looking back in retrospect, I noticed the following:
                            - It was a period right post break up, a period of unemployement. In other words a stressfull period. I was actually very stressed. Onde this period disapeared, the problem disapeared.
                            - I always take a while to get it up - the cause being over-stimulated in regards to pussy - like seeing a naked ass doesn't do me shit and more is required - which is why opting for good sex, set the frames that allows you (and her) to truly release yourself (and herself). This way you can feel free to do what truly turns you on. This is why I am obsessed with sex talk and all that - it is because the process and the end results allows me to have a better time than just "pulling a chick". Pulling a girl in a way that is pleasant is key at least for me.
                            - I noticed that alcohol and smoking in addition to being tired (all 3 are factors in late night pulls from nightgame) makes it harder to get it up. I stopped drinking again (never been much of a drinker anyway). Stopping drinking helped out a lot! even if i was just having two glass previously. Additionally my game gets worse and worse the more i drink - even in small amounts.
                            - I have less problems getting it up after i lost body weight!

                            Additionally, I have noticed that the following helps:
                            - Green tea - good for the heart, blood pressure and blood flow, in addition to other great stuff like L-theanine that makes you relaxed yet concentrated! some teas have more caffein and makes you more awake.
                            - Omega 3: good for the heart and a blood thinner.
                            - Ginseng - a natural stimulant. Panax ginseng is the one to pick (also caleld red ginseng). It also gives oyu a state boost when in field.
                            - Catuaba - a stimulant, natural with no known side effects (so rather safe). This shit makes you horny in a good way. This root has been used as an aphrodisiac for centuries in Brazil. Makes you happy and energitic in addition - also a great boost.
                            - Ashwaganda also makes you horny, but in a relaxed way - whereas catuaba makes you feel energitic. Different experience - try both and see which works best for you. Both Catuaba can be taken in field to get a state boost- however both have different effects - one makes you calm andrelaxed and sexual, the other one (catuaba) makes you into a sexual predator. Had more results with Catuaba.

                            I have also noticed that sexual pressure can also be the cause of ED. Sometimes I too feel a bit pressured, especially after having primed myself as this crazy good lover for hours - and now i have to put up. Despite being experience i sometimes feel pressured - which can cause slight ED. What I do to release the pressure is to focus on her and go down on her and do it good - take the time you need and learn how to lick pussy properly (i have a guide in the sex forums that may help). When she has gotten an orgasm from oral, not only is the lay secured (no need to worry about resistance and lmr - which also can be a game killer - like how can one be turned on when one has to think about game and LMR-busting? If you go down on her, she will not only be very horny and wet (leads to better sex) but you have secured the lay and you can basically just allow yourself to just jump into it and do what ever you want - what ever pleases you, to a certain extent of course.

                            Additionally if you have made her cum she is satisfied already and everything else you provide (sex) is just a bonus. This can remove a lot of the pressure that may cause ED and premature ejaculation!

                            Hope this helps,

                            -Teev
                            Teevster (TVA_Oslo) AKA. Alek Rolstad

                            Projects 2017:

                            - Still Rocking
                            - Flipping Lesbians (have sex with lesbians)
                            - 10 year in PU anniversary!

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                            • #29
                              I think it's the pressure thing. When I'm alone jerking off I have no single problem to get it up. Ok after a long period of excessive masturbating I sometimes have problems getting also an orgasmns but in 99 cases I somehow can manage to squeeze it out. It's also that I dont feel much with a condom. I know it sound stupid and I know that condoms are good stuff but it feels so lame compared with real pussy on peepee. Yesterday she sleept at my house again and same shit happened. Didnt get an orgamsn and not really hard. As soon as she put off the condom to blow I got hard again. I know it's stupid but did some strokes without condom. It felt really good but so dangerous that I put it out again. If I got her pregnant with that i call it immaculate conception.

                              I went down on here everytime I met her. I think I'm relatively good that this. also with my hands. She cant complain to not get an orgamsn. I made her cum several times with hand and mouth. I just would be happy if I also cum.

                              However, yes its the condom thing and feeling and also the pressure. and the anticipation to not get it up...... that's new. in the past I got it always hard... what a shit. my mind is full of bullshit as always.
                              self concious. oh why I dont get it up...What do I wrong.. the most stupid thing is that during sex I try to let go and relax?! Have you ever tried to relax and let go during that act ? i think I'm steering in the wrong direction. When I jerk off there is nothing relaxed and quit. It's an act of building up tension more and more and finally squeeze the shit out. I dont know..

                              Do you guys can have orgamsn while fully relaxed, no tension, with thinking nothing and just enjoying the moment?

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Beckstar101 View Post
                                I think it's the pressure thing. When I'm alone jerking off I have no single problem to get it up.
                                This is good news - this means there is most likely nothing physically wrong with you, and that problem is primarily psychological (if you had a blood flow problem or a bad heart, you wouldn't get it up at all)

                                Ok after a long period of excessive masturbating I sometimes have problems getting also an orgasmns but in 99 cases I somehow can manage to squeeze it out. It's also that I dont feel much with a condom. I know it sound stupid and I know that condoms are good stuff but it feels so lame compared with real pussy on peepee. Yesterday she sleept at my house again and same shit happened. Didnt get an orgamsn and not really hard. As soon as she put off the condom to blow I got hard again.
                                I will not argue here - condoms really kills the sensation but in your case it seems like the condoms you are using blocks the bloodflow somewhere (which is why you don't get hard). Usually, this problems occurs with free condoms (which always suck - buy your own) and condoms that are too tight in general or most likely, too tight near the root (of your dick). I had this problem, change brand, try different ones till you find one that feels ok. Finding the right condom takes a while - and not all condoms are equal. You may consider going for thinner condoms - sure a bit more risky, but jeez... if you use thin condoms and don't blow your load inside of her you have nothing to fear.


                                I know it's stupid but did some strokes without condom. It felt really good but so dangerous that I put it out again. If I got her pregnant with that i call it immaculate conception.
                                Meh you will be fine. Like what do you fear? STD's? most STD's you get are not dangerous and HIV is unlikely, especially from the pee pee (anal is a different story) and hepatitis is not a concern as you can vaccinate yourself against HepB (A is not sexually transmitted and C is unlikely). Is it pregnancy you are afraid off? did you know condoms don't really offer 100% protection against pregnancy in the first place? Don't blow your load inside of her - make her face nasty instead - always better. I have been doing this for year and i have been more or less as careful as you with a few slips, never had any issues.

                                I went down on here everytime I met her. I think I'm relatively good that this. also with my hands. She cant complain to not get an orgamsn. I made her cum several times with hand and mouth. I just would be happy if I also cum.

                                However, yes its the condom thing and feeling and also the pressure. and the anticipation to not get it up...... that's new. in the past I got it always hard... what a shit. my mind is full of bullshit as always.
                                self concious. oh why I dont get it up...What do I wrong.. the most stupid thing is that during sex I try to let go and relax?! Have you ever tried to relax and let go during that act ? i think I'm steering in the wrong direction. When I jerk off there is nothing relaxed and quit. It's an act of building up tension more and more and finally squeeze the shit out. I dont know..

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                                Solutions to this problem has been covered in this thread already - perhaps you should look back and read some of the suggestions?

                                -Teev
                                Teevster (TVA_Oslo) AKA. Alek Rolstad

                                Projects 2017:

                                - Still Rocking
                                - Flipping Lesbians (have sex with lesbians)
                                - 10 year in PU anniversary!

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