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  • Bad Sex = Hooking Girls? Wtf?

    strange phenomena that i talked about with a natural friend of mine.

    some of my best sexual experiences like top 5, 3 of them were one night stands.

    strangely though, the girls I've had really shitty sex with are still hooked. (the one night stand ones actually pumped and dumped me!)

    tyler talks about this as well, that giving girls shitty sex subcomminicates abundance cause you don't care = outcome independence and perhaps women rank that higher than actual good sex!!! weird right?

    additional theories

    1. the girls i had the best sex with were like 9+ so cause of their higher smv they're just used to really good sex - creds my natural friend. but i've had shitty sex with a 9 too where i could barely get it up and she still was hooked.
    2. girls take responsibility and want to prove that they can make it hot.
    3. what i consider good sex and girls do is completely different and i'm unaware.
    4. if a girl likes you, she likes you, no amount of crazy sex has much power in changing her decision

    what you guys think?

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    tyler talks about this as well, that giving girls shitty sex subcomminicates abundance cause you don't care = outcome independence and perhaps women rank that higher than actual good sex!!! weird right?

    Yeah some great analysis. I gotta try more of not caring if they get off.

    3. what i consider good sex and girls do is completely different and i'm unaware.

    Generally where they orgasm can be considered good sex. However, it's rare especially the first time so sometimes just going for a little while qualifies as good.

    I think you're pretty much right on most of this analysis and would just add what kind of value are you providing for the girls? In their eyes maybe they don't want or know what great sex is and they would rather keep you around for other shit like status? Sometimes it depends on their age too.
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    • #3
      bad sex being = me not getting hard, or cumming too fast. not necessarily not caring if they get off cause I do care but I kinda just shrug and jokingly say okay tonights not my best performance lol.

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      • #4
        uhhh idk


        just focus on WHO you want, don't try to rate the sex..or settle for someone because she seems more willing for more.
        i mean, the girls you aint compatible with you wouldnt even consider more with anyway

        the maybe girls are worth considering
        and girls that may seem to be chasing you can lose interest just as well as keeping it

        I notice @ myself that when i come at sex (only physically) somewhat, afterwards my whole needyness/itch for the guy disappears for quite a while. Except when there is some very strong emotional component.

        apparently it's what sets me free too somewhat.. it's just tough that at that point guys may have gotten used to some kind of attention as well, that i suddenly dont feel like giving anymore
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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        • #5
          The best sex I had was with a hooker I met once and then never saw her again saidly.
          She was a bit dominant with actual doing any kinky stuff. But somehow she made me wanting her fucking her harder and harder...

          The worst sex I had with girls from online game and girls which were not really my type and I just fucked them out of needyness or ego validation.. These shots always went backwards. I didnt came at all. I always get it up. but when the sex is bad I dont cum....

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          • #6
            This is cart before the horse. It's the reason she's fucking you in the first place. It isn't the sex hooking her, it's that she is hooked on you/having feelings and that is WHY she is having sex with you. Why the sex can be a little vanilla, she isn't as in to it, so you don't get as turned on/don't give a shit.

            Vs if she is purely having sex mainly based on arousal things are just hotter in general so the sex is better for you and her. However you might not necessarily be someone she would want in her life socially or personality wise.

            Great sex can lead to LTRs, and bad sex can lead to her not even talking to you again. It is a pattern though what you mention. Been in hell 30 friends with benefits, can't even count, and short to long term deals, 4 full blown stalkers. A lot of them valued me for a lot more than arousal. Cart before the horse is my best explanation of the confusion of it.


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