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    Hey guys so toward the end of my 10 years relationship i would close my eyes (think about some porn clip and then eventually bust a nut), same happened with my year relationship after that, and with another brief relationship i had....

    then i would bang multiple fuck buddies but after 2 - 3 encounters i was extremely bored and did not want to see them again...

    Recently and by chance/accident i have been seeing a girl that i am going to quote her "i do not fuck, i make love".... I encouraged her in the past to fuck other men, she did. (two)

    then she came back and told me "listen i am going to focus on you, you can do what you want, but i can not do this"....... After i insisted she goes ahead and fuck other dudes, she kept declining....

    Now i fuck this girl multiple times a day everyday for the last month, and the sex is amazing and it keeps getting better...

    Now i have a very strong deep connection with her (she is not even my type, she is a very tiny girl skinny type, i like them thick with big asses, and she does not even resembles my type)

    Anyways, my friend the revolutionary lifestyle design brings that points in a lot of his videos... He says is due to the coolidge effect and to have more of connecting type sex which is much better... He learned that by a book the death of cupid or something like that (forgot, watch the video)


    youngjgd brings up similar points:


    i dont plan to stop banging other girls - i'm sorta questioning if i should be seeing this girl as often as i am.

    (and (though she is attractive) looks dont matter to me as long as she is not obese or buck-toothed lol. i'm in it for the sex and the sex/connection here is one of the best ever)

    now my main problem with this scenario is (no i don't have onitis actually far from it, the one i really like is another girl i am talking to, which is 100% my type), just like youngigd i fail to get the desire to get/or fuck other women.

    ^ but my mental masturbation (trust me guys it makes no logical sense to me which is why i am writing this post, pure evil was the one able to give me good advice but he is mia) is that is hard to eat a 1000 dollar steak when you stomach is full....

    Thoughts...



    Last edited by Skills360; 1 week ago.
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    For me, best sex is when you do super little until the devil inside you is triggered and cant be contained. Similar to escalating the vibe. Where the vibe then take control over you and make you do things. For a more in-depth, read https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/ha...98-containment .

    If there is a girl you fail to trigger devil inside with unless long time since you saw her, but still go through the mechanical motions of having sex with her, aversion will kick in super fast. (bored) Much better to leave without fucking her, and give it a few days, since boring fuck can produce this aversion even if she is has 'personal 10' potential. I like to pre-empt with a text when they wanna meet and I worry its too soon: "Im super tired from work today but if you are ok with only sleeping together, you can still come over." (just to make sure I wont feel pressured into fucking her on a bored vibe, if thats how it goes.)

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      I don't know if that would make any sense to you, but you can have sex with someone on a surface level, or go much deeper. Not so much in a physical sense, but rather emotional/spiritual or whatever you might call it. If you go the latter path, at times you might not even move much physically, but "touch" her deeply nonetheless.

      2 days ago I was with a woman who kept shivering uncontrollably (in a good way) for like 1-2 hours while we fucked. About a week ago when I visited another woman friend of mine in the netherlands I held her arms and she held mine while I was on top of her, and I can still feel the "echo" of her arms on top of mine now, which feels great.

      I don't think this is related to "techniques" that can be taught, but rather some potential lying more or less dormant in everyone, which can be freed up once you overcome your inner reservations and barriers against them. Been attracting people who were into these things all my life but equally not quite there yet, but after some breakthrough experience a while ago I seem to now attract women who are pretty skilled in this to start with.

      I'm telling you this because several friends of mine who are very used to fucking around have told me seperately that they are questioning about the value of fucking around on the surface level. Most are now looking for a "real" relationship as a solution (although I advise them against it, but it's their life they can fuck up however they want). I think the key is exploring that "depth" thing instead.

      Btw I have also experienced the attraction to women who (if I look at the objectively, or compare their looks to other women I find physically more beautiful) aren't necessarily that beautiful, physically speaking. It has come to a point where I have this feeling of "seeing through" people, not in a concrete way like "I know exactly who you are", but more like "I can see depth in you" vs. "I can see there's not much depth in you to be explored". Of course I don't tell that to the latter group. But the more depth I can feel in someone, the more attracted I usually become to that person, and, judging from my limited experience, the easier it is to share the above described sexual experiences together.

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      • Skills360

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        Jester good points...

        P.s. you totally have improved your writing style... Kudos! Now is my turn, but i don't think there is hope for me lol..

    • #4
      Originally posted by ijjjji View Post
      For me, best sex is when you do super little until the devil inside you is triggered and cant be contained. Similar to escalating the vibe. Where the vibe then take control over you and make you do things. For a more in-depth, read https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/ha...98-containment .

      If there is a girl you fail to trigger devil inside with unless long time since you saw her, but still go through the mechanical motions of having sex with her, aversion will kick in super fast. (bored) Much better to leave without fucking her, and give it a few days, since boring fuck can produce this aversion even if she is has 'personal 10' potential. I like to pre-empt with a text when they wanna meet and I worry its too soon: "Im super tired from work today but if you are ok with only sleeping together, you can still come over." (just to make sure I wont feel pressured into fucking her on a bored vibe, if thats how it goes.)
      MAN there is NOTHING worse than boring sex!

      Luckily, in the last few months since rediscovering ASF I have been on a roll with dominant sex.

      Even FBs that I hook up regularly w will still put up ASD. I'm not sure why, but I'm kinda glad they do because it keeps the sex hot.

      In fact I doubt these chicks would even consider me an FB....just a friend and sex 'just happens'. (Like 40 times thus far lol)

      I've talked with them about their other FBs and the biggest complaint is "he doesn't make me come / he's not rough enough"

      So, I'm buddies with them & I fuck them...I wonder what it is that makes them NOT slot me into an FB role? (IOW when we hang out it's always under the pretense of doing something else. Rarely do I get the "I'm horny come over" text)

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      • #5
        Originally posted by Skills360 View Post
        now my main problem with this scenario is (no i don't have onitis actually far from it, the one i really like is another girl i am talking to, which is 100% my type), just like youngigd i fail to get the desire to get/or fuck other women.
        just a quick thought...when you say 'your type'...what defines your type? well maybe this chick IS your type since you love fucking the shit out of her. that's what I define as my type anyway.

        Also - i fucked her in the ass for the first time the other day. afterwards she cleaned my room and did some other nice shit for me. Rare for her. What is it about assfucking that turns the hardest bitches into little puppydogs?

        I have since then felt less of an urge to see her & more to find other girls...(go figure.)

        Maybe put her to do things for you...compliance. I think that was one of Franco's big things?

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        • #6
          Originally posted by youngjd View Post


          Maybe put her to do things for you...compliance. I think that was one of Franco's big things?
          all women do stuff for me, come on... and yes, same here the urge finally dying down...
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          • youngjd

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            interesting...any particular reason?

          • Skills360

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            she is having personal financial issues, is kind of stressing me her stress...... She mention that she notice me fucking her, to make love to her, so last night she brought that up and sex was great.... It seems i go back to fucking mode, i am going to start learning about spiritual sex, gonna read that book cupid poison arrow...
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