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  • Lack of penis sensitivity/ very difficult to cum. (opposite of premature ejaculation)

    Hi there.

    I've had this problem with multiple women now. Stunning women, often. Some of the hottest women I've ever bedded.
    And that is --- it's very difficult to cum. With and frequently even without condoms.
    I have no problem cumming when beating off.


    Now, I know the likely culprit, which is two-fold.

    1. I watch porn and beat off too much. About once a day. Nevertheless.

    2. I'm getting older, I'm about to turn 31. I used to beat off daily and NOT have problems cumming on women. I think penis sensitivity declines with age somehow. At 16, you'd get a hard-on just looking a woman in the Sears Catalog and if I actually got laid at 16, I'd probably blow a load just seeing a woman naked.

    Now, the women I'm with, frequently feel insecure because they can't make me cum. Nothing to do with them, honestly. It's not fair. I usually make women cum repeatedly --- honestly it's not hard and women usually don't masturbate as much or have the "recovery" problem even if they did. Still, they are insecure they cannot return the favor.


    So solutions here to help penis sensitivity?

    1. Obviously, I'm going cold turkey on the porn and beating off. I'm officially done with that until further notice. I'm getting laid anyway so it's not like I'm going to be backed up. Honestly, it's a coping mechanism for boredom and waking up to a less-than-inspiring job.

    BUT ... is there anything else I can do? I don't have ED (lack of hard-on) --- but I feel it's a similar problem, or on the way there. Can't cum. So I feel like 'ED-based' solutions may be appropriate.

    2. I heard L-Arginine (a specific amino acid that may dilate blood cells or something) -- may help. Maybe I'll try that.

    3. I've also been out of the gym, bad for many reasons. I think I'm re-upping the weight lifting and cardio (bloodflow) immediately.

    Any other tips?

    And forget the women too. For my own sake.

  • #2
    I had this problem check out the post of my greatest 2018 ephiphanies discussion cause i can not spell the suplemts....


    maca

    aswahlda

    testjack200


    vitamin d, zinc, magnesium, borom...for the testosterone....

    get a blood test and get your t tested but you are 31 so it should not be that....


    Porn is bs, i got laid and horney with or without porn no difference...

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    • #3
      could be http://www.curedeathgrip.com/

      Best way is to replace your hand w a fleshlight and reduce masturbation. Follow theprocessoutlined.

      no matter itll Give you good insight on your sensitivity to pussy etc. and ability to play around with it to "diagnose" things

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      • #4
        I’ve had the same issue most of my life, and i’m almost twice your age.

        In my case a least, nothing to do with ED. Never had an issue with that (except briefly when I was taking anti-depressant drugs), and still no problems.

        But it does seem to make women insecure. I think i’ve lost a couple of partners...at least partially due to this.

        For me, a lot of it’s mental. During sex, if I can’t orgasm when I want to, I tend to get “in my head’, which makes it even harder. Then it starts feeling like a chore, or tying to finish a marathon, which takes all the fun out of it.

        I find if I can stop the thoughts, and refocus on the sensations, it often helps.


        Some other suggestions:

        - glow’s “deathgrip’ link looks really interesting

        -I find marijuana can be very helpful, making orgasms easier, stronger, and longer lasting. But this seems to vary a lot with the strain of pot. Indica or Indica-sativa hybrids seem to work best for me.

        -have had some luck with “arousal’ lubricants - seems to increase stimulation and sensation. Currently using Trojan “Arouse & Excite’. There are some other brands that are targeted at men specifically which I intend to try. “Warming” might work better than “tingling”.

        - one advantage of our condition - stamina! I can go a long time if I don’t come - hours sometimes.This opens up a whole different kind of sex,which can be more intimate and tantric.

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        • #5
          I wish I had this 'problem'. Maybe I should backwards engineer what you did. Porn and Fapping daily. On it. :P

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