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  • Men Allowed Why do some guys feel like they should be able to seduce more and more girls?

    I am just wondering about it, I wondered about it before, but figured i may as well ask...

    Often guys seem so unfulfilled looking for more short-term fuckbuddylike relationships.. yet they seem to seek it.. what makes them do it?
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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    I wonder this too, I think it's lack of quality girl's ,they haven't met someone they feel is worth giving up all women for and the other reason I believe is feeling of being inadequate, like dudes feel like no girl will stick around or commit to them ,lacking in lifestyle. Good question!

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    • #3
      Because new pussy is awesome.
      “You know I cant hear none of that spend the night shit... that kumbaya shit”

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Kit View Post
        I am just wondering about it, I wondered about it before, but figured i may as well ask...

        Often guys seem so unfulfilled looking for more short-term fuckbuddylike relationships.. yet they seem to seek it.. what makes them do it?
        most guys will back me up on this, a lot of us after a while feel bored and/or feel trapped.... This happens with fbs and even with "mains" post nres...

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        • #5
          https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

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          • #6
            me personally I like it because I enjoy the novelty. Gets me off. Novelty = more dopamine. / testosterone

            Whereas girls where the chemistry is amazing is more than just that. It's bonding, growing together, etc. = dopamine/oxytocin or vasopressin/seratonin

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            • #7
              Yea I saw a talk about this in relation to sex- and porn addiction. Across most species, its in male nature/biology to pursue fertilizing all wombs in vicinity. (Theory being that porn screws with this mechanic via infinite variation, leading to somewhat perpetual horniness.)

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              • #8

                Blame it on technology. It's so easy now to meet a DTF girl that from a guy's point of view it really take a lot more to get the relationship level.

                Why deal with a girl drama when you can just swipe right and fuck another girl within 48h ?

                Men tend to value sex and women relationships.. The next decades are going to be quite challenging for women because sex won't be a factor and they'll need to bring more to the table if they want a LTR.

                ...not to mention sex robots....

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                • #9
                  yeah idk, got away from the question. Realize now i was generalising a very select group of people. Thanks all of you for the answers though, probably gonna get back at them later xD


                  also right now i feel like i am falling in that loop too as a girl :') no clue how that can be explained
                  weird stuff

                  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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                  • #10
                    also it's just male biology. one girl can only birth like 9 kids. whereas if u spread the seed u can theortically have thousands of kids. so from an evolutionary psychology perspective it's obvious way the vast majority of men like new girls.

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                    • #11
                      just a sidenote: evolutionary biology is bullshit IMO
                      counterarguments:

                      t doesnt make sense since investing in children is one of the requirements for the survival of children +
                      good development of children requires the presence of a father
                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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                      • Jack Gignac

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                        it's not bullshit imo. yeah good development but that's why there's r and k selection. spray and pray. if you have 1000 kids more than a few would do okay for themselves. they can be raised by the woman and her allies. the village. the school system. the government etc. etc.

                        i'm not saying it's right i'm just saying why these instincts are here since you were the one who asked. nothing is nature is an accident. murder, rape, violence etc. are part of the human condition because in some instances it's adaptive. it's hard to rap your head around it because this is a desire/drive that's exclusively male so you use pure logic to understand it.

                    • #12
                      Originally posted by Kit View Post
                      I am just wondering about it, I wondered about it before, but figured i may as well ask...

                      Often guys seem so unfulfilled looking for more short-term fuckbuddylike relationships.. yet they seem to seek it.. what makes them do it?
                      Same could be asked of girls
                      No?

                      Girls usually hook up with more guys than guys hook up with girls though
                      So... isnt the question just "why do I feel so frustrated by guys doing similar stuff"

                      And my answer is simple
                      We all get frustrated at things we ourselves do
                      Cuz by nature we tend to have a double standard

                      Both guys and girls do that

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                      • #13
                        that is not necessarily really true though.. the amount of girls that usually hook up with more are select.. and the amount of guys that WANT to is not somehow...

                        that said..

                        I think.. The issue for some girls is that they want a guy, and then feel hurt and they just.. go for what they see as another possibility.

                        With guys I more often see that some guys(not all definitely)
                        Just dont value anymore what they have because they are more concerned with competing with each other and one upping and idk.. They have this ideal image they often don't let go. thats why they start off pedestalizing girls (they see their image) and then they realize the girl doesnt fit the image and just go on to the next to find that image
                        whereas girls I know often find a guy and try to let go of their image when they like the guy enough..


                        ​​​Sure there are girls who do the guy thing and guys that do the girl thing... but yeah idk.
                        i think guys encourage each other to be 'hard" and "unforgiving" while girls are supposed to be "forgiving" and "soft"/"sweet"

                        I think that creates the likelyness of the girl adapting to be higher.

                        idk its a different mentality
                        "ideal image" as soon as the illusion wears off not looking at 'good' reality of the relationship but at the dream ideal image thats not met.

                        vs

                        "not being hurt emotionally" after the partner has met some standards

                        idk they seem like 2 different strategies atm..

                        and i am thinking of my girlfriends who all had to give up some of their ideals to be with their exes or their partners...

                        and then i think of some guyfriends who dont even look at how they truly feel often.. but at how their 'ideal' girlfriend who met the criteria shouldnt be hurt and they should love her etc.
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                        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A

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